“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dealing with guilt

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Been practicing this stuff for 6 or 7 years off and on (off because of relationships) and one thing that holds me back is guilt. This usually happens when I want to break things off with a woman. Guilt has kept me going back to previous ex's, who I would break up with, only to dump them again.

With my last ltr, the last time I tried to reconcile with her, she rejected me (which stung), but has tried to contact me a couple of times since to which I would always reply even though I knew better. Every time she contacted me, I would send out these long, drawn out messages on why we can't be together and she would get pissed at me and stop contacting me for a while which would me feel like I owe her something.

I've done this with most of the women in my life as I always have a difficult time letting go. I am friends with another ex, who has now started rejecting my advances because I kept going back to the other girl. She sent me gifts for the longest time and for some reason, I always felt bad about this.

This feeling of guilt also prevents me from rejecting girls who I don't want to be with such as women I'm not attracted to.

I know that this is detrimental to my improvement, and I also feel that my last to ltr's have used this against me and tried to take advantage of it when I break up with them.

Anyway to overcome this as I'm tired of being Captain Save-a-ho
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Growing up, I studied a lot of Eastern philosophies, but not necessarily Zen Buddhism.

I was reading a thread today where I somewhat recall you (not sure if it was you are not) suggesting to someone that they read Way of the Peaceful Warrior. That is actually one of my favorite books and I was a bit surprised to see it mentioned on this site.
 
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look up spinning plates i know this will help you out alot my man
 
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Thanks for the replies, guys. It is difficult trying to keep my ego in check, that's why the last relationship I had hurt so much when she rejected me.

Even now, the other ex I was talking about who rejected my advances is now begging for me to talk to her, literally.

Bishop, can I call you? Please? Or can you call me? I am missing you and I feel real lonely. Please? I am begging you..

Bishop.. could you call me, please? I am excited and want to ask you about the position. Please.. I am begging you..

How can a person possibly ignore this?

Damn, why did I have to be born so sexy?
 
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