"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dealing with girls that are constantly surrounded by other guys.

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I've run into this situation a few times, and I can't really formulate an effective method of dealing with it.

Many of the girls I am interested in meeting are high-status, and therefore are usually always flanked by a posse of chumps that guard her like some of impenetrable wall.

The girls are on high alert since they get hit on all day and all night, I was just curious about how you personally would get yourself noticed and eventually approach without being categorized with the rest of them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Start building social proof, get many friends crowd you.

Be high-status yourself.

That's the only thing I can come up w/so far.
 
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Originally posted by SevenOne9
Start building social proof, get many friends crowd you.

Be high-status yourself.

That's the only thing I can come up w/so far.
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You're right.

There is a 9.5 living on my floor in the dorms, she's the current target of the week. I'm trying to just put myself out there for her to notice, I've constantly got other girls in the room, I just need her to be aware of it. Hah.
 
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Beware women with many male friends. Usually AW or psycho materal unfortunately.
 
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Beware women with many male friends. Usually AW or psycho materal unfortunately.
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Bingo!

Learn to deal with an AW, and you'll stand a better chance with this one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Beware women with many male friends. Usually AW or psycho materal unfortunately.
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Noted.

My ex-girlfriend fits this description perfectly.
 
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These are a dime a dozen now'adays .... good ole attention wh0res is what we call em ...

They're just ONS material and thats it ! ... do not EVER date one of these
 
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You gotta be careful with AW's... Some if not most are big time **** teases. They will try and **** with your head and feed off your AFC'ness. I can't stand them....
 
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"Feed of your AFCness"

And if you give them no AFCness to feed off of your fine

You don't treat her like a goddess. If she asks for a favor, ask her for one and tell her she has to help you first. The more she tries for you, the more you withdraw.

When you do kiss her, make it seem like you're giving in. She had to work for it. And you're not even sure if you like it.

Oh, and if she pisses you off, call her a dumb broad.

The more the AW she is, the meaner you have to be.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I literally just watched this girl ask a guy in the library to run back to her room to get her phone charger - and he did.

I just need a window to prove to her she's not dealing with your average chump.
 
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