Dealing with girls that are constantly surrounded by other guys.

[Stay Fly]

I've run into this situation a few times, and I can't really formulate an effective method of dealing with it.

Many of the girls I am interested in meeting are high-status, and therefore are usually always flanked by a posse of chumps that guard her like some of impenetrable wall.

The girls are on high alert since they get hit on all day and all night, I was just curious about how you personally would get yourself noticed and eventually approach without being categorized with the rest of them.

 

[SevenOne9]

Start building social proof, get many friends crowd you.

Be high-status yourself.

That's the only thing I can come up w/so far.

 

[Stay Fly]

Originally posted by SevenOne9
Start building social proof, get many friends crowd you.

Be high-status yourself.

That's the only thing I can come up w/so far.

You're right.

There is a 9.5 living on my floor in the dorms, she's the current target of the week. I'm trying to just put myself out there for her to notice, I've constantly got other girls in the room, I just need her to be aware of it. Hah.

 

[flexion_]

Beware women with many male friends. Usually AW or psycho materal unfortunately.

 

[Blatant truth]

Beware women with many male friends. Usually AW or psycho materal unfortunately.

Bingo!

Learn to deal with an AW, and you'll stand a better chance with this one.

 

[Stay Fly]

Originally posted by flexion_
Beware women with many male friends. Usually AW or psycho materal unfortunately.

Noted.

My ex-girlfriend fits this description perfectly.

 

[TxCowboy]

These are a dime a dozen now'adays .... good ole attention wh0res is what we call em ...

They're just ONS material and thats it ! ... do not EVER date one of these

 

[BrotherAP]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=85031&highlight=girls+surrounded

Great discussion about this right there

 

[Paintballguy]

You gotta be careful with AW's... Some if not most are big time **** teases. They will try and **** with your head and feed off your AFC'ness. I can't stand them....

 

[BrotherAP]

"Feed of your AFCness"

And if you give them no AFCness to feed off of your fine

You don't treat her like a goddess. If she asks for a favor, ask her for one and tell her she has to help you first. The more she tries for you, the more you withdraw.

When you do kiss her, make it seem like you're giving in. She had to work for it. And you're not even sure if you like it.

Oh, and if she pisses you off, call her a dumb broad.

The more the AW she is, the meaner you have to be.

 

[Stay Fly]

I literally just watched this girl ask a guy in the library to run back to her room to get her phone charger - and he did.

I just need a window to prove to her she's not dealing with your average chump.