"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dealing with girls from the past & their friends

evil_tomato

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Hey guys,

Im just wondering how do you get around girls who you used to like and they rejected you and you still see them around or have them on your facebook. do you still chat to them or do you ignore them/unfriend them?

Girl i used to like ages ago who rejected me for god knows why, still has me on facebook but im thinking about deleting her and her friends as i feel like she went around and told her friends how she rejected me and giving me a bad rep to other girls and is turning some mates of mine against me, basically sh1t talking about me....Im friends with her sister who i get along with great and anyway b1tch found out and basically slammed me for "chatting up" her sister and now her friends are giving me sh1t saying im a "loser, couldnt get her so now im trying with her sister" bla bla which is crap me and her sister are just friends and besides she has a bf...

How do you guys deal with sh1t like this? shes ruining my chances with other girls! should i delete the h0e?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your over thinking this way to hard, At school im known as a fvcking player. Has that stopped me from getting girls at school? Naw man. No matter how much sht has been talked about me when it comes to girls it doesn't hinder progress. If you act like you dont give a sht no one else will dude.
 

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yeah but girls listen to other girls especially when they bad mouth guys and try and turn people against you just because she didnt like you/rejected you. which is annoying for my game
 

Who Dares Win

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Stingers said:
Your over thinking this way to hard, At school im known as a fvcking player. Has that stopped me from getting girls at school? Naw man. No matter how much sht has been talked about me when it comes to girls it doesn't hinder progress. If you act like you dont give a sht no one else will dude.
yeah because being known as a guy which score lot of girls gives the same feedback as being knows as a loser,makes perfect sense right?






evil_tomato said:
Hey guys,

Im just wondering how do you get around girls who you used to like and they rejected you and you still see them around or have them on your facebook. do you still chat to them or do you ignore them/unfriend them?

Girl i used to like ages ago who rejected me for god knows why, still has me on facebook but im thinking about deleting her and her friends as i feel like she went around and told her friends how she rejected me and giving me a bad rep to other girls and is turning some mates of mine against me, basically sh1t talking about me....Im friends with her sister who i get along with great and anyway b1tch found out and basically slammed me for "chatting up" her sister and now her friends are giving me sh1t saying im a "loser, couldnt get her so now im trying with her sister" bla bla which is crap me and her sister are just friends and besides she has a bf...

How do you guys deal with sh1t like this? shes ruining my chances with other girls! should i delete the h0e?
Deleting her would only give her more arrows for her bow, the best you can do is put her in acquaitances list and make sure that group has limited to no access toward the stuff you post and pictures.

If you delete her it will be ok in the long term but for the short-medium one you'll only be the butthurt guy that she and her friends will laught about.

Just limit their access and ignore, dont even reply if they write to you.

Regarding the sister if your plan is being a professional "creeper" (woman language) then messaging an engaged girl on facebook is a good option.

If you just want to find a worth girl, available to you and with no baggage just change circle and get rid of that toxid environment in your life, once you have a label girls will not allow you to get rid of it, so either do as I say or get a couple of uzis and go on a rampage, no other options.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
yeah because being known as a guy which score lot of girls gives the same feedback as being knows as a loser,makes perfect sense right?

^ lol where is your logic coming from dude.




Who Dares Win said:
Deleting her would only give her more arrows for her bow, the best you can do is put her in acquaitances list and make sure that group has limited to no access toward the stuff you post and pictures.

If you delete her it will be ok in the long term but for the short-medium one you'll only be the butthurt guy that she and her friends will laught about.

Just limit their access and ignore, dont even reply if they write to you.

Regarding the sister if your plan is being a professional "creeper" (woman language) then messaging an engaged girl on facebook is a good option.

If you just want to find a worth girl, available to you and with no baggage just change circle and get rid of that toxid environment in your life, once you have a label girls will not allow you to get rid of it, so either do as I say or get a couple of uzis and go on a rampage, no other options.
and hes right deleting her will just give the girls another reason to laugh at you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sometimes I don't see the point in keeping her when I have no use for her since she doesn't like me and is doing nothing but creating problems for me/disrespecting me to everyone
 

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evil_tomato said:
Hey guys,

Im just wondering how do you get around girls who you used to like and they rejected you and you still see them around or have them on your facebook. do you still chat to them or do you ignore them/unfriend them?

Girl i used to like ages ago who rejected me for god knows why, still has me on facebook but im thinking about deleting her and her friends as i feel like she went around and told her friends how she rejected me and giving me a bad rep to other girls and is turning some mates of mine against me, basically sh1t talking about me....Im friends with her sister who i get along with great and anyway b1tch found out and basically slammed me for "chatting up" her sister and now her friends are giving me sh1t saying im a "loser, couldnt get her so now im trying with her sister" bla bla which is crap me and her sister are just friends and besides she has a bf...

How do you guys deal with sh1t like this? shes ruining my chances with other girls! should i delete the h0e?
Obviously this chick "sees" herself..or at LEAST likes to publically "claim" she's such a "great catch" by trying to put down the "loser" who "couldn't get her" in order to feel good about herself.

The chick is obviously insecure and most likely would never approach dudes whom she likes and are out of HER league so her only "bold approach" in life is to put down "lesser" people in hopes everyone else will join in the fun and she'll get some attention that way.

Think about it. If this chick is such an "All-Star" shouldn't she be more worried about all the "better" dudes she "should" be having or getting? Why worry about a "loser" who couldn't get her??

I think you scare this chick. Why? Because in her mind GOD FORBID someone...let alone her friends...may actually wind up seeing things differently about you and may (GASP!)...are you ready for this......actually LIKE you?

Imagine this "winner" with all of the hot perfect guys who she "always" gets and who all "want" her actually not being that person at all. And what IF she sees the "lesser" person (you) not caring and being brave enough to ignore her and keep on keepin on then actually finding success while she stomps her feet and pouts in the corner with NO ONE whom she thought she could live her "glamourous" life vicariously through?

If this chick were such a great catch and got all she wanted. She could care less what you did and wouldn't be worried about who you dated.

She just wants you to "prove" you are the "loser" she told everyone you were to make her feel better about herself.

If she mentions anything about you I'd simply respond: Some people waste far to much "winner" time thinking and talking about people they claim are losers and they "don't care about". What kind of a "Winner" does that? Pretty telling if you ask me.
 

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great advice here.
i just dont wanna look like the butt hurt guy who couldnt get her so i deleted her because she and her friends got to me.
 

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really you shouldn't care bro.

i saw one of my oneities's friends last weekend. didn't say hi, for obvs reasons.

maybe i will next time. might be worth it.

but who cares man all in the past
 

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it doesnt matter, we all die eventually
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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