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Dealing with ghetto chicks/ older chicks

the pokemaster

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ok basically i moved to london this time last year and ive noticed alot of the chicks around the area i live in are what people would call "ghetto". whenever i try flip the ****y yet funny stuff on them they take it the rong way, ESPECIALLY if i'm tlkin to a group of them. And when i mean take it the wrong way, they are masters of CUSSING and EMBARASSING people... and they usually know a lot of other girls in the area and they attempt to blacklist your name. I swear down these girls get kicks out of turning people down. Another thing i don't like is the whole networking thing in my area, like people have to know who you are and you have to have a "rep" to even talk to these girls on a level. I don't believe in it, and i don't think i need one. Alot of the guys theyre seen around are "comfort toys". They all suck up to her and buy her presents and lick her *****.
I cant help but liking these chicks though, i get out of how confident they are, and their ghetto booty.


Also, i no this has probably come up before, but i ohnestly tried searching and i cant seem to find anything relevant. Im usually found hitting on a lot of older chicks. I love older chicks. Now during the conversation, they'll ask me "How old are you?". Now i don't look my age, im 16 but look around 18, the chicks i go for are around 18, 19. I don't lie, i think its stupid so i tell them straight up im 16. BOOM, from then on they see me as cute, or a baby... I even try flip it back on them sometimes and ask how old are you? And they'll say 18,19 and then i'll say something ****y, and then theyre just awww your cute. AND I NEVER GET THE NUMBER. I need some help, i need like a game plan or something...
And i think the problem around my age is that girls older than me are very age sensitive... afraid of what there friends will say and stuff. WHATS WRONG WITH A TOYBOY????
 

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what do you mean by deep thoughts and sincerity?? I've had deep conversations with girls but those are usually girls i have good relationships with or one with immediate chemistry. its a different case with ghetto chicks who have barriers surely???
 

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Well it must be your C&F that is wrong, because I do alot of C&F, busting, banter, whateva and it works fine, and I see others do it too. One thing that surely can affect it is your age being under 18. But you will have to find out what is wrong with your game besides your C&F because that for sure is 1 thing that your probably not doing right.

These so called "ghetto" chicks is what i mainly chase after too, because there asses are crazy, looks like a nice pillow. Trust me it works, and I know what your talking about with rep, basically you just need value to get a good impression. That could be by the way you dress, so I would try to dress more stylish.
 
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