"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dealing with frustration

Black Casanova

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Kinda trivial, but whenever my friends are talking about where they've gone with girls, I feel left out, because I've never done anything... I'm making progress but it's so damn annoying.

How can I deal with that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MarcP

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Originally posted by Jester
simple solution, go do something.
Yeah Jesters right you're not going to do anything by writing asking what to do about it.

Its as simple as this:
Read the DJ Bible if you need to
a)Find an attractive chick
b)use what you've learned on this site and convey your personality
c)number close/kiss close/**** close
d)walk away and repeat steps a-c if you want

If you're scared of whatever then remember this: you're more likely to fall down the stairs and kill yourself than talk to a girl and her kill you. Are you scared of the stairs? Hell no because you've been walking up and down stairs for all of your life, in fact, you're so confident walking up and down stairs that you don't even think about it. Thats what you've got to do with women go approach loads and you get better and start to do it more subconsciously.
 
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Originally posted by MarcP
Yeah Jesters right you're not going to do anything by writing asking what to do about it.

Its as simple as this:
Read the DJ Bible if you need to
a)Find an attractive chick
b)use what you've learned on this site and convey your personality
c)number close/kiss close/**** close
d)walk away and repeat steps a-c if you want

If you're scared of whatever then remember this: you're more likely to fall down the stairs and kill yourself than talk to a girl and her kill you. Are you scared of the stairs? Hell no because you've been walking up and down stairs for all of your life, in fact, you're so confident walking up and down stairs that you don't even think about it. Thats what you've got to do with women go approach loads and you get better and start to do it more subconsciously.
Nice analogy!
 

splinterkb

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If you feel left out, then you can do either of these:

A. Go masturbate
B. Make some **** up
C. Do something about it and go lay your mack on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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