"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dealing with frustration

Black Casanova

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Kinda trivial, but whenever my friends are talking about where they've gone with girls, I feel left out, because I've never done anything... I'm making progress but it's so damn annoying.

How can I deal with that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MarcP

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Originally posted by Jester
simple solution, go do something.
Yeah Jesters right you're not going to do anything by writing asking what to do about it.

Its as simple as this:
Read the DJ Bible if you need to
a)Find an attractive chick
b)use what you've learned on this site and convey your personality
c)number close/kiss close/**** close
d)walk away and repeat steps a-c if you want

If you're scared of whatever then remember this: you're more likely to fall down the stairs and kill yourself than talk to a girl and her kill you. Are you scared of the stairs? Hell no because you've been walking up and down stairs for all of your life, in fact, you're so confident walking up and down stairs that you don't even think about it. Thats what you've got to do with women go approach loads and you get better and start to do it more subconsciously.
 
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Originally posted by MarcP
Yeah Jesters right you're not going to do anything by writing asking what to do about it.

Its as simple as this:
Read the DJ Bible if you need to
a)Find an attractive chick
b)use what you've learned on this site and convey your personality
c)number close/kiss close/**** close
d)walk away and repeat steps a-c if you want

If you're scared of whatever then remember this: you're more likely to fall down the stairs and kill yourself than talk to a girl and her kill you. Are you scared of the stairs? Hell no because you've been walking up and down stairs for all of your life, in fact, you're so confident walking up and down stairs that you don't even think about it. Thats what you've got to do with women go approach loads and you get better and start to do it more subconsciously.
Nice analogy!
 

splinterkb

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If you feel left out, then you can do either of these:

A. Go masturbate
B. Make some **** up
C. Do something about it and go lay your mack on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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