"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dealing with Fame the Don Way

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Hey all I am getting known (DJ~Music) and people are treating me like they know me, but I don't know a lot of them. OK most of them. At first it wasn't so bad, 'cause it didn't happen that much. Now anytime I go into society people always talk to me, and ask when I am playing next and stuff.

It is cool I like it, but I don't think that I am handling it the way I should. Sometimes I just want to do what I am doing and get it done, but everyone wants to talk.

I believe that a DON could deal with this in a way to make the people feel apprecieated and welcome.

Any advice or criticisim....

Flame ON FLamers...again I will ignore you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When they approach you and ask "Hey what's up/going on/what are you up to?" make it known you are in a hurry, "Just trying to get some errands done. I'm in a hurry." Keep the convo short and break them with a look at the watch and "Oh my,I really should get going,it was nice talking to you.Take it easy" and exit.
 
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blinkwatt said:
When they approach you and ask "Hey what's up/going on/what are you up to?" make it known you are in a hurry, "Just trying to get some errands done. I'm in a hurry." Keep the convo short and break them with a look at the watch and "Oh my,I really should get going,it was nice talking to you.Take it easy" and exit.
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Blinkwatt I hear you bro, but done that and it really set that person off. I have to make them feel appreciated!!! IF they feel burnt in anyway they will never come back to my show, or even worse they will tell everyone how big of a prick I am.

I can't have that at all. Plus I am not like that. I know you are not saying to blow them off, but they take it that way. The relationship is really weird. They actually feel like I am their best friend. Some have been comming to my show for over a year. SO they have been connected to me that long, and to me they are one out of a few hundred a weekend, or a few thousand annual.

BUT everyone of them counts to me. SO I was thinking if there is a way to be ****y and funny with girls. Than there should be a equation like that for fans.

Again thanks for the advice Blink
 
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