"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OK good stuff Harry !
She is hitting me up everyday with texts ( witch I also hate ) ...
Made me think of more stuff.
I think at this point her interest is very high And she probably want a relationship/or think I am relationship material...

All of my past longterm relationship started like this one very intense at the start and we would see each other all the time because we were ''in love''. I think it worked pretty well for me and in your opinion is there any type of girl that will loose interest if you are too strict with those once a week rule etc etc ... Or it will be good with almost all girl. I feel like some ''good girl'' can probably be a bit intimidated by that whole DJ approach to things...

I think that when you start dating a girl you are in a sort of honeymoon period. I wonder if seing a girl 1 / week for 2-3 months does not kill a bit of the crazy romance that can be expected when you meet someone and are very infatuated with them ?! Because when you are really in love you want to see the other person all the time and you want her to start thinking ''is he the ONE '' etc etc

This one is new to the city so she does not know many people so I guess she wants to see me all the time...

Anyways very good stuff the title of that thread should be change to something better cause there is a lot of valuable info in it.

I will ease it up a bit with that particular girl and see if it raise interest to unseen level ; )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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