"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK good stuff Harry !
She is hitting me up everyday with texts ( witch I also hate ) ...
Made me think of more stuff.
I think at this point her interest is very high And she probably want a relationship/or think I am relationship material...

All of my past longterm relationship started like this one very intense at the start and we would see each other all the time because we were ''in love''. I think it worked pretty well for me and in your opinion is there any type of girl that will loose interest if you are too strict with those once a week rule etc etc ... Or it will be good with almost all girl. I feel like some ''good girl'' can probably be a bit intimidated by that whole DJ approach to things...

I think that when you start dating a girl you are in a sort of honeymoon period. I wonder if seing a girl 1 / week for 2-3 months does not kill a bit of the crazy romance that can be expected when you meet someone and are very infatuated with them ?! Because when you are really in love you want to see the other person all the time and you want her to start thinking ''is he the ONE '' etc etc

This one is new to the city so she does not know many people so I guess she wants to see me all the time...

Anyways very good stuff the title of that thread should be change to something better cause there is a lot of valuable info in it.

I will ease it up a bit with that particular girl and see if it raise interest to unseen level ; )
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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