Dealing with Envious people!

[mahon83050]

Most of us want everyone to like us (even strangers on the street) but you have to realize unless you are the ugliest, poorest, most untilligent bastard out there, there is probably someone who envies you right now for something. It could be a relative, friend, acquaintance or stranger you saw at the bar.

People can be envious for just about anything:

Your job
Your bonus
Your car
The fact you a few inches taller
Your athletic ability
Your artistic or musical ability
Your full head of hair
Your prettier girlfriend
Your better looking son/daughter
Your "superior" facial features
Your eye color

etc, etc.

People can be envious of you for just about ANYTHING/EVERYTHING

I guess my point is, NONE OF THIS MATTERS if you LIKE YOURSELF.

You ever seem to notice when you are happy and confident/content with your life you don't really seem to care too much what others think?

If you have low self-esteem to begin with, you seek others approval and if others don't like you (as everyone does have someone who doesn't) it will make you even more depressed.

 

[ExcelNPrevail]

I always wondered if females could be just as envious towards a man just as she would be towards other women.

 

[mahon83050]

I always wondered if females could be just as envious towards a man just as she would be towards other women.

I don't think so.

Women take the prize when it comes to being envious of other women; usually her looks.

We had this one "hot girl" in our hotel restaurant who was clearly the best looking one there. She ended up quitting and all of the girls did not like her and were glad she left. I bet 100% they were envious of her because she looked better than them. That is how alot of women operate.