"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dealing with Douche-bags on date [VID]

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Zippapants said:
What would you have done in this situation?

I would've quietly asked them if they could tone it down a bit. If for some reason he approached me and my date and threatened me, I would hit him with the line I usually give guys who try to start things with me: "You can try."

I have a habit of observing my surroundings wherever I am in case of a fight. Though I am trained for MMA fighting, this would be a street brawl, and I'd imagine his buddies would try to get in it. I would use the environment to the best of my advantage in this case.

Has something like this ever happened to you?

Growing up, I was always a pretty heavy kid, so I got picked on a lot and had to defend myself several times. Sometimes I'd win, other times... a few of them would walk away hurting at least haha. In high school, I was 6'6" and over 425 lbs., but I still had some muscle and was surprisingly fast for my size. Was in a few fights, but no situations like this.

Since I've dropped the weight (over 200 lbs.) and put on a crapload of muscle, I tend to be more intimidating these days. I was out on a date once and some kids were loud, but when I asked them if they could be a bit quieter, they apologized and things were fine.

How far in/at one point would you have done something?

When the kid came to the table is when I would've geared up for something, and especially when he waved his hand in the woman's face.
Bass Rutten vids are the best , and their hilarious to boot
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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