Dealing with disrespect on first date

[stevo]

Next time wait for your date to arrive (late). Be happy to see her when she finally shows up, and then cancel the date right there as you look her in the face. "Glad you made it, but I have to go now...I'll call you...see ya".

And you just leave her there standing in the street. More powerful than any text or ghost tactic. She just wasted your time AND hers with nothing to show for it.

Uhm No! Going this route doesnt do anything for the dude.

We're talking about a good looking lady, She'd walk into the bar alone and dudes would be falling on themselves to buy her drinks.



Pyros nailed the situation. Just walk out, leave any hopes of having anything with her at the bar and forget about resurrecting anything unless she's chasing.

See this, nobody, not an HB8, not an HB4, not your mother, not your neighbour or your buddy arrives to a meeting 15 or more minutes late 'cause he/she got lost'. If we're talking about adults, nobody gets lost in his own city when they have to meet someone.

If they are interested in meeting you, they check the map a day or two before, check the public transport schedule, make sure their car has gas...etc etc...which is , by the way, the same you would do if you were meeting someone you're interested in. Common sense.

If I read again that 'women are not good at reading a map...' I will terminate him. This IS JUST PLAIN STUPID. If they want to meet you, they will make sure to get there on time.
Do you think they would get lost if it was a job interview? they wouldn't right?

From personal experience, if any girl is arriving more than 20 minutes late, you just leave without letting her know.

This accomplishes several things:

a) They get the point that they should not mess with you (make you wait, make you waste your time, toy with you...etc)
b) They understand that you're not THAT interested. (no pedestals for you honey)
c) You get to spend your time doing something productive instead of waiting for some stupid s-lut.

This happens because 1- she's a stupid not interested wh-ore, and 2- you're too desperate.