Dealing with compliments during intimate moments

[Jariel]

Something I often encounter and something that still catches me out is when a girl compliments me during intimate moments. In between kissing, she'll tell me I've got nice eyes, lips, I'm a good kisser etc and even during sex, she'll tell me I'm hot, I drive her wild, I've got a good body or I'm hung like a horse (ok, maybe I'm exaggerating a bit on that one ).

I often find myself on the spot and I'll just throw back a compliment, telling her she looks beautiful, has a hot body, or something generic and chumplike. Then afterwards I think how pathetic it sounded. I admit, while I'm kissing or f*cking, I'm not at my wittiest and the C+F replies don't really flow...and many would seem quite inappropriate.

How do you guys react in this situation?

 

[dementia]

Return IOI's with IOI's... What you're doing is fine. She's into you. Complimenting is allowed.. C+F is good too but youre ok if youre already intimate and she says something first and you return.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

If you feel awkward returning a compliment with a compliment, then just go back to the kissing.

That'll shut her up.

 

[Jariel]

I hate it when women get chatting during kissing and sex, but it seems to be nervousness (a few have admitted to it) I guess my mind switches off once I get down to business and I find it hard talking.

 

[vatoloco]

When you're truly The Prize, you will naturally go along with her compliments. When the woman I'm with compliments me (especially during sex) I always go C+F: "Of course I am, sweetheart. That's why you dig! "

But you must truly be The Prize to pull this off.

 

[Mike32ct]

Something I often encounter and something that still catches me out is when a girl compliments me during intimate moments. In between kissing, she'll tell me I've got nice eyes, lips, I'm a good kisser etc and even during sex, she'll tell me I'm hot, I drive her wild, I've got a good body or I'm hung like a horse (ok, maybe I'm exaggerating a bit on that one ).

I often find myself on the spot and I'll just throw back a compliment, telling her she looks beautiful, has a hot body, or something generic and chumplike. Then afterwards I think how pathetic it sounded. I admit, while I'm kissing or f*cking, I'm not at my wittiest and the C+F replies don't really flow...and many would seem quite inappropriate.

How do you guys react in this situation?

I don't recommend the following to most guys because it totally breaks the rules. Only a relatively advanced guy can pull this off and keep high value. (The OP is highly advanced, so I don't hesitate to bring this up.)

If she KEEPS complimenting you or you just want to spice things up, sometimes you can have fun with a little self-deprecating humor and/or a sarcastic sort of reverse roleplay. (Just don't spend too long on it.) Examples are listed below.

HB: OMG it's soo big.
Mike: Nah, it's really tiny.
HB: Aww... no it's not.
Mike: Yeah it is, but it's not all bad...
HB: How so?
Mike: I get to go where the big guys can't
HB: LOL You're sooo bad.
Mike: Of course I am. Now take my ENTIRE two incher baby.
Mike: <slides it in slow>
HB: OMG yesss I love your small c*ck. It makes me hot.

Or I was fooling around with chick in Vegas. We were about to do the deed. Her upper chest was flush red (an obvious sign of arousal.)

Mike: You're getting flush. That's a sign of arousal.
HB: Umm yeah.
Mike: But it's NOT like you're AROUSED or anything. <She's dripping wet.>
Mike: I mean you're a good girl. That LAST thing you're thinking about is my d*ck inside you.
HB: Exactly. I don't even know why I'm here with you lol.
HB: Now shut up and F me LOL.

 

[ARrocket]

If you feel awkward returning a compliment with a compliment, then just go back to the kissing.

That'll shut her up.

HB: Compliment

Me: *pulls back for a second, smiles, gives look of pure desire, goes back in aggressively/passionately/whatever-ly*

HB: *Even more turned on?*

 

[Bible_Belt]

"Thank you" is always the right response to a compliment, then just keep doing what you're doing, which in this case would be her.

The rules change a little when a woman is naked, as it suddenly becomes ok to compliment her on her body...like you somehow never once looked at her body until you got her naked in bed But that's what women want to think. You don't have to volley back a compliment at the exact moment that she compliments you, just beat her to the complimenting once or so after she's naked and then a simple 'thank you' is the only response you'll need.

 

[phatboi408]

"Thank you" is always the right response to a compliment, then just keep doing what you're doing, which in this case would be her.

The rules change a little when a woman is naked, as it suddenly becomes ok to compliment her on her body...like you somehow never once looked at her body until you got her naked in bed But that's what women want to think. You don't have to volley back a compliment at the exact moment that she compliments you, just beat her to the complimenting once or so after she's naked and then a simple 'thank you' is the only response you'll need.

Say Thank You...no need to punish her because compliance levels are so high.