Dealing with Competition

[Ragin_Asian]

Ok so I live on college with a 5girl:3guy ratio and there seems to be a few talent going around. With the game ladder I'd say I'm about above average when it comes to guys who are on the scene. The problem is that most of my friends have better skills as they've been around and have more experience. Even though they are friends, they are still competition when it comes to girls. After all its all fair game. My best friend is probably on top of the ladder, the bast*rd lol. He tells me that me and him are probably to 2 highest on the ladder but I find that hard to believe.

Now although I have the highest amount of sex out of the group (but with just one girl), I still feel like I'm left behind in the game. Even though me and this girl got into a three-way make out session with her friend which made everyone jealous of me lol. Even though I just mentioned this I feel like I'm not in control of what I wanted because it was just too easy and I just happened to be there.

How do I deal with competition and up the ante on my DJ/PUA skills? I just want to be the prize rather than the average joe in line.

 

[belividere]

Are you trying to get skills to actually get girls or just to impress your friends?

 

[Ragin_Asian]

Lol i dont sleep with my friends...only hot girls...now which one is more fun.

Which one is better, you going home with the girl or seeing someone else take her home. I must admit that saying that I don't like being left behind kinda means my friends have an influence on my actions or have a pressure. But I prefer that I get the girl on my own behalf rather than getting the girl for others sunday breakfast goossip.

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by Ragin_Asian
Ok so I live on college with a 5girl:3guy ratio and there seems to be a few talent going around. With the game ladder I'd say I'm about above average when it comes to guys who are on the scene. The problem is that most of my friends have better skills as they've been around and have more experience. Even though they are friends, they are still competition when it comes to girls. After all its all fair game. My best friend is probably on top of the ladder, the bast*rd lol. He tells me that me and him are probably to 2 highest on the ladder but I find that hard to believe.

Now although I have the highest amount of sex out of the group (but with just one girl), I still feel like I'm left behind in the game. Even though me and this girl got into a three-way make out session with her friend which made everyone jealous of me lol. Even though I just mentioned this I feel like I'm not in control of what I wanted because it was just too easy and I just happened to be there.

How do I deal with competition and up the ante on my DJ/PUA skills? I just want to be the prize rather than the average joe in line.

Listen this quote shows what others think about you, so you need to live up to your pontential. If you admire your homey for his skills, and he has respect for you, that means the only thing holding you back is you. You have a lot more power then you realize, so all you have to do is trust in yourself and go do it.

 

[Keeper]

The amazing thing about us humans is that at exactly ANY point in our lives - we can change.

You can change now... in 1 minute, in 1 year, or whenever.

So if someone is beating your game: change for the better, and improve your own game.



Just my 2c.

 

[Ragin_Asian]

Has anyone ever been in this situation then finally got better at it?

If so how did you manage it?