"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dealing with ****blocking

volkme68

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How do you deal with ****blocking when it is more passive and under the radar? I can deal with it when it is right up in your face or guys try to AMOG me. I have trouble when it is more soubtle though, like when a guy will come up to your target and just rub her back and be friendly to you. Or when they just won't leave you alone. If you confront the person, it seems to the girl like your a jealous guy or making something out of nothing. If you just let the guy go, you don't get any. What are your methods and techniques for dealing with this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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daygameguy

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If the guy comes in AFTER you have already attracted her - she gave you IOIs and you feel like she likes you - then you can simply acknowledge the guy, and TELL the girl to follow you, and MOVE her away to some private location. He won't have time to attract the girl, and she won't have time to think twice, and since she likes you already, she will most likely join you. He will feel like a tool.

If the guy comes in DURING your attraction game, then you will need to lower his authority by showing that you are more high value, and more interesting and more charismatic than him. It will be an uphill battle if he is more good looking and charming than you are, but use some AMOG tactics, or Mystery's group theory (neg the target, DHV to the guy, isolate the target)

Night game can be pretty tough sometimes because of these unwanted interruptions in your game. Day game ftw! ;)
 

volkme68

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well here is my situation: me and my roommate had a girl apiece over. both girls are friends with us and each other, but definitely open to more. We were just playing drinking games and the like. My other room mate comes back to the apartment and has a half dozen other guys who are common friends with him. One of them is drunk and won't leave my girl alone. he is just being there kinda creepy like. He wasn't even trying to hook up with her as much as just being in the way and making her feel wierd and not willing to put out. He is a good friend and he didnt realize what he was doing and I am always about bros before hoes. Plus, my experience with similar situatiions is that when you AMOG a guy in that situation it comes off really ****y (not confident) and toolish. What would you do?
 

volkme68

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yeah that would be good if the shindig wasn't at my apartment and neither one of us can drive to her place. any other ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JDA70

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I know you are all about bros before hoes
but that was your girl and he was drunk and
being weird. You got to be alpha and confront
people on thier behavior.

I would have pulled him aside and said
" I'm trying to hook up with that girl
and your not making it any eaiser by the way your
acting." " Back off a bit." " I'd do it for you." :)
 

cockerdumbnuts

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yeah, my roomie trys to throw the bro's before hoes at me all the time. A lot of the time its bs. I just tell him, "yeah, bro's before hoes. So help your bro get some pvssy."
 

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I had a "friend" say bros before hoes before and it turned out to be total bull****, he made out with the girl I was gaming and blamed it on him being drunk
I let him off easy but I should have kicked his ass
 
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