So I met this 8.5 tonight. We got on well, and I invited her to a barcrawl I was going on. She was really enthusiastic and keen to come along.
During the barcrawl, we spent a lot of time talking. She seemed pretty keen, laughing at my jokes and giving some playful kino (we were punching and grabbing each other). It wasn't a 100% chance, as she seemed reluctant whenever I tried to hold her hand but I thought it was worth pursuing. I also tried to avoid being too AFC, including making her take turns buying drinks.
Then I went to the bathroom. When I came back, she was talking to some dude and seemed to be quite into him. I walked past her and went back to dancing with some of the other girls there. When it was time for the group to leave, I asked if she was coming along and she said she wanted to stay. I was pissed, but tried to play it cool. She asked if she could have my number and I responded with "Nah, there's no point, I am leaving in a few days anyway." She then thanked me for giving her a really great night, and asked me to text her, to which I responded "Yeah, sure" before walking off to join the group.
So my questions are:
A. Is my reaction appropriate? Do I have a right to be pissed given we only met that night and I did not spend any money on her, or am I being petty?
B. Was my response appropriate for a DJ?
Any feedback would be appreciated.
During the barcrawl, we spent a lot of time talking. She seemed pretty keen, laughing at my jokes and giving some playful kino (we were punching and grabbing each other). It wasn't a 100% chance, as she seemed reluctant whenever I tried to hold her hand but I thought it was worth pursuing. I also tried to avoid being too AFC, including making her take turns buying drinks.
Then I went to the bathroom. When I came back, she was talking to some dude and seemed to be quite into him. I walked past her and went back to dancing with some of the other girls there. When it was time for the group to leave, I asked if she was coming along and she said she wanted to stay. I was pissed, but tried to play it cool. She asked if she could have my number and I responded with "Nah, there's no point, I am leaving in a few days anyway." She then thanked me for giving her a really great night, and asked me to text her, to which I responded "Yeah, sure" before walking off to join the group.
So my questions are:
A. Is my reaction appropriate? Do I have a right to be pissed given we only met that night and I did not spend any money on her, or am I being petty?
B. Was my response appropriate for a DJ?
Any feedback would be appreciated.