"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dealing with angry & aggressive girls that can't deal with rejection, help?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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I am in a relationship with a girl right now who is my opposite. She is a pale skinned blue eyed brunette and I am a middle eastern guy. For some unknown reason, I notice I attract a lot of young African American women but I am just not into them or Asians. I am friends with some but just no attraction to them or asian women. Thinking of it now, I am not into most latinas either unless they look white or like Selma Hayek, someone like Dania Ramirez does not do it for me.

Here is a problem. I have a more mixed race/puerto rican look going for me even though I am middle eastern. When my family came to America (I was 5 at the time) we were poor and had to work our way up. Most of the girls I ran into were either black or puerto rican (and I don't have any interest in either). I had to spend a lot of time near black and latino girls from the inner city, tried not to form relationships with them but a lot threw themselves at me.

Being that I am in a small city, I have seen a lot of open anger from black girls that knew me growing up and even some black teachers I had throwing a fit (even though I am long out of school). One girl that knew me growing up saw me with my girlfriend in public, asked me if the girl I was with was my girlfriend, and when I said yes she went off on a rant and threw a fit. I have mainly seen African American girls do this, in a previous thread I talked about a past temper.

I am only in my town for a few more months (town has a lot of black and latino people in it) but till then I want to know how to handle my situation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just ignore them.. If you are happy with your wife, that's enough
 

GS750

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Dude I stopped reading after "Dania Ramirez does not do it for me". I think your problem might be...that you are gay.


All kidding aside, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Like who you like. End of story. The black/latin girls don't do it for you? Then don't date them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HowardHughesDicaprio

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read again

girls are trying to pull all sorts of **** to make me feel guilty for liking the girls I like including the race card
 

GS750

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HowardHughesDicaprio said:
read again

girls are trying to pull all sorts of **** to make me feel guilty for liking the girls I like including the race card
I read it the first time, I was joking around. Nobody should make you feel guilty for liking who you do. If you're not attracted to a certain type of woman, dont date them. Its your life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JoeMarron

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Dude I stopped reading after "Dania Ramirez does not do it for me". I think your problem might be...that you are gay.
Hah right. I've never understood how one could see an entire race of women as unattractive. Surely there's at least one that passes the boner test.
 
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