"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dealing with AMOG and being cracked on

BongDuy

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So i was just curious how other people handle being different. whether you're white, asian, black, spanish, indian, or from outer space, there are soo many jokes that can be made on you. Typically, this happens when you're hanging out with a bunch of dudes, and they make these jokes out of friendlyness, or to appear ****y and funny for the ladies. How do you guys deal with this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scars

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You just serve their sh!t right back to them. It comes with time, you become faster and quicker with come backs. That's just how guys are. We talk sh!t to each other. Don't take it too seriously. If someone makes a good crack at you then laugh with it and actually congratulate them "that was pretty good man". But always be on your toes. If you have an opportunity to make a wise crack at somebody then take it. Guys are just competitive, and it's fun most of the time.

-Scars
 

badboyjmm

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Scars said:
You just serve their sh!t right back to them. It comes with time, you become faster and quicker with come backs. That's just how guys are. We talk sh!t to each other. Don't take it too seriously. If someone makes a good crack at you then laugh with it and actually congratulate them "that was pretty good man". But always be on your toes. If you have an opportunity to make a wise crack at somebody then take it. Guys are just competitive, and it's fun most of the time.

-Scars
True. I was at a party and my best friend said: "You're like the only black guy around" I simply said: Yep I know, but everybody wants to talk to me, I'm such a star !" Girls were laughing at my jokes and I was LOUD, you just don't have to look shock at what people might say.
 

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If you get cracked on, turn it to your advantage. Use witticisms and do it confidently! Especially if you "Get him", that's gonna earn you points! You have to be prepared to compete.

Case closed.
 
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