Dealing with actors.

[Maeisgood]

False signals.

1) What can be said of girls who seem to talk and flirt with everyone? Most girls that I know, even those with boyfriends seem to talk, flirt, and smile at everyone. It doesn't really mean that they are s1utty, but it makes it hard to tell whether or not they are giving you the signal to go for the question.

2) What are the requirements to making an outting with a lady an official "date"?

 

[Mack 86]

Ok let's get this started:

1.) These girls are flirts and you don't take anything she says seriously until you make some kind of sexual contact with her. These females are the worst but once you get in their pants you know that they are serious abotu their feelings.

2.) Date is a date when you say that it is. Just asking her if she wants to go out to eat is different than asking to go on "a date." Dates are when you are persuing a relationship it's like an interview and "going out" is just having a good time like with your boys but instead you have the potential of getting laid.

 

[Maeisgood]

Two questions:

1) You blatently call it a "date"? How do you do this? Please give me an exact example of what you said. I'm going to ask within the next month or so and I need to know.

2) I'm religious and the idea of sex bothers me. So does this mean I cannot get a girlfriend or anything?

 

[Maeisgood]

What if a girl you hang out with about once a month or so has suddenly become attractive to you and you want to change the nature of the friendship? I like her, but getting over the awkwardness of trying changing from being friends to being "together" would feel really werid.

 

[Fitch]

2) I'm religious and the idea of sex bothers me. So does this mean I cannot get a girlfriend or anything?

Absolutely not! Relationships are not all about sex.

If this person is a friend of yours, the best way to do it is when you are having a night out, alone. You will know if it's "right." If you feel attracted to her, and you have a gut feeling but you can not really identify it. Ask her out; attempt the change from the status as friend to girlfriend.

Do it. It is not as impossible as it sounds.