"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dealing with a Sex Buddy who has a Boyfriend?

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dj_phobia

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How do you deal with a Girl who you fvck from time to time and talk to fairly regularly, when she brings up her Boyfriend or other guys in a conversation (Both in person and on the phone)?

Do you try and divert the topic?
Do you act disinterested?
Do you ask her to talk more about the guy?

How do you indirectly let her know that you aren't interested in that BS. Should you need to give her this message?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why not say "let's not talk about your boyfriend"?

What does she say?
 
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dj_phobia

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Tried that and she usually obliges...however its difficult for her not to bring it up again in a future conversation.

Besides that, saying it directly takes the fun out of the game? Just curious to know how others tackle this...
 
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dj_phobia said:
How do you deal with a Girl who you fvck from time to time and talk to fairly regularly, when she brings up her Boyfriend or other guys in a conversation (Both in person and on the phone)?

How do you indirectly let her know that you aren't interested in that BS. Should you need to give her this message?
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She's has sex with her boyfriend and the same day comes has sex with you? I don't know if I'm impressed with you or disgusted with her.

You either

1 - make her you f buddy - no feelings attached
2 - make her your girlfriend

You can't have her as your f buddy and then get upset that she talks about her boyfriend. The point of an f buddy is to get a high from the sex with no strings attached, not to develop feelings for the other person. But it does sound like you are developing feelings for her so you have tread carefully; either cut off the sex - which you won't do, or show her through your actions you would like her to be girlfriend material.
 
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