"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dealing with a Sex Buddy who has a Boyfriend?

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How do you deal with a Girl who you fvck from time to time and talk to fairly regularly, when she brings up her Boyfriend or other guys in a conversation (Both in person and on the phone)?

Do you try and divert the topic?
Do you act disinterested?
Do you ask her to talk more about the guy?

How do you indirectly let her know that you aren't interested in that BS. Should you need to give her this message?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why not say "let's not talk about your boyfriend"?

What does she say?
 
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Tried that and she usually obliges...however its difficult for her not to bring it up again in a future conversation.

Besides that, saying it directly takes the fun out of the game? Just curious to know how others tackle this...
 
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dj_phobia said:
How do you deal with a Girl who you fvck from time to time and talk to fairly regularly, when she brings up her Boyfriend or other guys in a conversation (Both in person and on the phone)?

How do you indirectly let her know that you aren't interested in that BS. Should you need to give her this message?
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She's has sex with her boyfriend and the same day comes has sex with you? I don't know if I'm impressed with you or disgusted with her.

You either

1 - make her you f buddy - no feelings attached
2 - make her your girlfriend

You can't have her as your f buddy and then get upset that she talks about her boyfriend. The point of an f buddy is to get a high from the sex with no strings attached, not to develop feelings for the other person. But it does sound like you are developing feelings for her so you have tread carefully; either cut off the sex - which you won't do, or show her through your actions you would like her to be girlfriend material.
 
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