"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing with a LJBF and other stuff in the workplace

london_lad1986

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Lads,

Just looking for some advice here on how to handle a situation.

I got the LJBF treatment for a girl I was trying to fvck @ work... and everyone knew there was something going on between us, the other night we all went out for drinks and I ended up shouting at her as she was trying to get a rise out of me all night by fliritng with ohter guys etc and making sure I saw it (I know massive failure)

A couple of people witnessed it and I dont want it hurting my rep too much, when Im back in work whats the best way to deal with it do you reckon? Say i was too drunk and downplay it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SamTheHobit

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Tell her you had Absinthe.
 

Maximus Rex

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Don't talk to women you work with. You can lose your job.
 
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