Because he has no options . If he has she would need to earn his respect . If he has a harem of HB10s , do you think he will be posting this ?Tony, you've the wrong frame of mind my friend.
You're saying that you "didn't earn her respect at first", like she's some kind of authority over you and these are lines spoken by supplicating nice guys. No, respect is a given between two people, but you can however do alot to fvck that baseline respect up. If anything she should be writing forum posts on girly forums how to earn your respect. You're your point of mental origin.
This is a problem because your behavior is a consequence of your mindset. Everything starts with having the correct mindset.