"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing w/ friends who act different around girls

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When friends and I go out in social situations a certain member of the group begins to act really different around girls of the group. Usually it just involves him thinking he's cool and acting all bad ass, which was usually funny because he ended up making himself look like a major dumbass. Recently though it has started to become VERY annoying as he's started to try to put himself above other members of the group. Even though we put him in his place when he does this, it has become very annoying. How would you guys deal with this. Before all this happened he was really fun to hang around, so I don't want to completely cut him out of the group, but everyone is seriosuly considering it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Regardless of his personality, is he a good player/wing or not?

Because as you yourself become skilled in gaming women, you too will be known as a Player and will be hated on. Now maybe he's not too skilled, but enough winging, sarging, and field experience might turn him into your best wing for picking up chicks while all your other AFC friends are jerking off at home.
 
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You obviously care way too much about this individial if you're willing to focus so much attention on him. Seems like his testosterone kicks up and he starts doing crazy ****, what I wonder though is, where's your testosterone when all this is happening? Are you on the bench watching his moves and laugh only when he fails? What's the jealousy all about? I'd be glad if someone in my group got a girl in the bed no matter his approach.
Does he make you feel small? LOL! You're an insecure ****head. Get a ****ing girl and a ****ing life!
 
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Actually, he isn't a good wingman, that's the thing, he acts like a major dumbass. And to the last dude that posted, you don't know enough about the situation to come to such conclusions. So unless you have something constructive to say shut the **** up.
 
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Yeah, Ebach, you're a loser. You also must be a psychic because it was amazing the conclusions you drew off of a paragraph long post.

Ebach aside, I had this same problem with one of my friends too. You gotta realize just as me and all my friends did that the kid hates himself deep down inside and is insecure. To make a long story short, despite all our remarks or interventions or whatever, nothing fixed him. I even stopped hanging out with him for almost a month. He only changed when he got a girlfriend. I guess the only answer to your problem is to find him a girl who I guess likes projects or something.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by TomN
When friends and I go out in social situations a certain member of the group begins to act really different around girls of the group. Usually it just involves him thinking he's cool and acting all bad ass, which was usually funny because he ended up making himself look like a major dumbass. Recently though it has started to become VERY annoying as he's started to try to put himself above other members of the group. Even though we put him in his place when he does this, it has become very annoying. How would you guys deal with this. Before all this happened he was really fun to hang around, so I don't want to completely cut him out of the group, but everyone is seriosuly considering it.
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A true friend wouldn't dis his boys like that. Sounds like he cut you out.

Rather than waste time and energy trying to change him, just run your game without him around.
 
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