"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deal Breakers for potential relationships

Stagger Lee

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zinc4 said:
From what I have heard I'm guessing partner count is at least 25 or higher...furthermore... he met her on POF and she met all of her exes online he says...
She sure sounds like a dirty and untrustworthy slut to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bokanovsky

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jurry said:
Dont really see the problem, cant change the past.. If they like each other and have a strong connection/relationship, who really gives a shìt?
Have you ever heard the expression that past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour? History repeats itself? How can you possibly not give a sh!t about the best clue on how your future relationship with such a woman would potentially pan out?
 

Induced Drag

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It's tough to say. Was her threesome a one time thing? When she says she slept around a lot after she was dumped; what's a lot? A lot means different things to different people. She may be a complete slut or just feeling guilty of sleeping with two or three guys after she was dumped.
 
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