"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Ok yeah, I know what you mean now. We've got one of those. I would leave that for shrugs. Deadlifts are better done with a regular bar. I'm not sure if the Diamond bar would screw up your form or not, but I wouldn't run the risk if I were you. The deadlift is one exercise you do NOT want to slip up on, techinique wise. Could result in some disc slippage.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I actually went to the diamond/shrug bar to better my form. It keeps your back straighter 'cause you can bend down and not over. But that is just what I was taught, doesnt mean I was taught right!
 

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Deadlifts work tons of muscles. that's why they are called deadlifts, I do feel it in my lower back and hamstrings, do not round your back. Use one hand over and the other with an underhand grip.
 

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zerocelcius said:
I actually went to the diamond/shrug bar to better my form. It keeps your back straighter 'cause you can bend down and not over. But that is just what I was taught, doesnt mean I was taught right!
The problem with this is that now you're doing more of a dumbell squat than you are a deadlift. If the weight is put at your sides than your back will remain closer to vertical which will negate the full body benefits of the deadlift.

If any of you are having grip problems, than go buy some heavy grippers. They're pretty cheap and you can make progress pretty quickly with them. Plus it's a great party trick to be able to crush an apple.
 

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Plus, the staggered grip helps, and maybe you might need straps if your grip is failing.

Horrible Form.

Good Form.

As you can see, your shoulders are pretty much over the bar. Your back isn't straight up and down.
 
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Plus, the staggered grip helps, and maybe you might need straps if your grip is failing.

Horrible Form.

Good Form.

As you can see, your shoulders are pretty much over the bar. Your back isn't straight up and down.
both links go to the same video lol every time i see that guy i want to slap him so hard for being such retarded turdbag
 

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Oops, I'll have to fix that...

Fixed. I might just make a thread here about form
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Plus, the staggered grip helps, and maybe you might need straps if your grip is failing.

Horrible Form.

Good Form.

As you can see, your shoulders are pretty much over the bar. Your back isn't straight up and down.
HOLY **** :eek: . I was just waiting for his back to snap in half.


Anyway, deadlifts are relatively easy. The absolute most important thing is to a) keep your back straight (not curved, and not hyperflexed) and b) pull back and THEN up, doing it the other way around will destroy your back. Keep the bar close to your body and don't look up, look straight ahead. The weight should be on your heels at all times, and be sure to keep your shoulders back and your chest out--if you start slumping (especially at the top), you can hurt yourself.

Your grip will come along. Don't use straps, they just put a bandaid over a bigger problem--lack of grip strength. It's a fact that deadlifters have MASSIVE forearms, and that's why. Don't use gloves either, that'll actually make it harder to grip the bar by increasing its diameter. Gloves should only be used if you tore a callous or something. Chalk up your hands and that won't happen though. So yeah, your first week or two might just be forearm workouts, but that's part of getting a balanced physique. Doing deadlifts with straps is basically cheating, b/c it's probably THE best forearm exercise too.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

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Yes, I make that sound on a regular basis when getting toward the end of a low rep set. By forcing the air out in any kind of manner whether its yelling or tsssssssss ing or grunting, it helps the lift a lot.
 
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