Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Deadlift form question

TyTe`EyEs

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Originally posted by Cheiradawg
What is the diffrence?

If you're working hamstings, you keep your legs straight.

They're called stiff leg deadlifts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
Great post docka. Very detailed.

I find the most important part is the descent, as it is very difficult to do a good rep if your descent is screwed up.

The key things to concentrate on are:

1) Keeping your shoulders back and not letting them slump forward

2) Pushing from your heels

3) On the way down sitting back so that you are doing a sorta half squat.
Hey Matt, what do you mean by pushing from your heels?
 

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Originally posted by rudygee2
Hey Matt, what do you mean by pushing from your heels?

You're reading too much into this bro. Just start out with light weight. You'll get the feel for it rather quickly.
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
You're reading too much into this bro. Just start out with light weight. You'll get the feel for it rather quickly.
Haha, you're probably right. I'm just paranoid about messing up my lower back.
 

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Originally posted by rudygee2
Haha, you're probably right. I'm just paranoid about messing up my lower back.
Yeah, I can understand that. Just make sure to do your warm-ups before going heavy. You'll be fine. ;)
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Instead of pushing with the entire foot, or just the front of the foot, push with the heel end. Balance is better, and you can usually shift more weight [In my experience]
 

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What DJBen said. Basically just keeping your weight on your heels, rather than on the toes.

So when you are driving off from the bottom, start with pushing yourself off the ground with your heels. When you get to around mid-thigh level combine it with a pull from the back.
 

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deadlifts are like women, they'll hurt you everytime, but they'll make you a man.
 

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Yeah, agreed. Squats and deadlifts will add hair to your chest, and make anything else in life seem easy in comparison.

In fact if you were to only squat, deadlift, dip and chin you could build an incredible body in the space of two years if you worked really hard and ate a lot.
 

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
Great post docka. Very detailed.

I find the most important part is the descent, as it is very difficult to do a good rep if your descent is screwed up.

The key things to concentrate on are:

1) Keeping your shoulders back and not letting them slump forward

2) Pushing from your heels

3) On the way down sitting back so that you are doing a sorta half squat.
Cheers Matt :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Centaurion
deadlifts are like women, they'll hurt you everytime, but they'll make you a man.
Haha.. nice one. Agree
 

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Sometimes when lifting the bar up it hits my knees. Does this mean I have bad form?

Also what is a good bodyweight/lifting-weight ratio that I should aim for.

I weigh 57kgs and currently am deadlifting 35kgs (just started out 2 weeks ago)
 

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I've got roughed up shins from my last back day - I try and keep the bar pretty much ON my shins. I always try and avoid hitting my kneecap though, even if it does mean slightly moving the bar around the knee. Then it goes right up the thigh and back down.

Push from the entire foot/heels and make sure your shoulders stay BEHIND the bar. Also, despite what a good few people say, try and keep your hips as close to the bar as possible with a straight back. If you watch anyone deadlift serious weight, they dont actually squat right down with their ass near the floor, they stick near the bar with a fairly straight back.

Good form for the big three [Bench, Deadlift and Squat in my books] is essential. Every month and a half or so I have a low weight high rep workout followed by a heavier workout. Not only does it stimulate the muscle to grow because you're shocking it with a different training method, but it allows me to work on any problem with my form.
 
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