"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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De-mystifying woman

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the following tip is for guys who have had little if no
experiance/confidence with woman-
or guys that have had expericance but still look at females
with that dewie eyed expression like girls are the
biggest mystery or greatest presence in the world

but by any means, if you are a basket case-get those issues
handled and please don't take this advice without addressing them FIRST!


for anyone who hasn't even had a girlfriend before, i highly
suggest they go out and get a girlfriend FIRST and just let things
flow naturally.don't get married or anything, but in a relationship you'll learn alot more from girls then reading anything online,it'll all come natural to you ,trust me. and if you mess up? so what?
it's more chance to learn about something. being in a relationship
opens your eyes to interacting, feeling comfortable ,gaining conifdence in yourself in terms of just being around a girl.




now don't go out there and use them, find someone you genuinly like.don't be soo concerned about right and wrong, just do what comes natural.the only way anyone is gonna gain confidence...
in woman is to actually be with a woman.




TRUST ME,i learned the MOST about girls when i spent about NINE
YEARS of my life being with them constantly-
From serious girlfriends to friends to crushes.
just being around them,having them there really familiarized
me with them and took away the mystery behind them.
once i realized that ALL WOMAN are practiclly the same
and that they all have needs and are just people..it was a
real eye opener.Spotting their differences and unique
qualities is the fun part.



(when you see a girl witout her make up,pick her ass in front of you or doing boring a$$ mundane daily chores with you-it
REALLY kills the fantasy and throws them off the pedestal that we put them up in our minds as being some mystified beings)


once guys realize that a woman will NOT solve all of their
problems and that they are NOTHING to be afraid of
it'll sky rocket their success with woman/dating over all.
BECAUSE IT'S NO LONGER A BIG DEAL...
this is NOT an excuse to become all needy and clingy
on a girl, but an excellent way gain more experiance and in becoming comfortable with females.
plus, by having a TON of sex it also becomes something
that gets demystified and it's no longer a big deal.

getting laid anymore shouldn't be such an issue because you did
it like a hundred times!! As a matter of fact the i learned the
most from a chick i was with for like 3 years that practiclly
"blew my brains out" in terms of sex and with her it really just
engrainded complete sexual confidence in me from just doing
soo many crazy and wild things with her!
damn , just writing about this ..damn i gotta go!...






you don't become the best driver by reading "how to drive"
manuals..you learn by driving :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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