"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ddating is $$$ hobby

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personally i find dating to be an expensive hobbyk the first date is not that bad but if it continues and she like u and u like her and if the guy still has to pay it is expensive expenses for the guy. that is why i think after the 5 or 6th date if she really likes me she should go 50 to 50 or swap. dating is expensive man-one night at restaurant is like 80 bucks -pay parking is $$ downtown vancouver, and at the end of the night if all u get is a kiss well what a rip off.
what does the gal have to lose ,she gets a free dinner what do we lose our money -unless u make easy fast money then its ok other than that forgot about it.

what do u guys think? they say love don;t cost a thing ,but i think it does, guy pay for b days, valentines, anniwarys, ring.....
i wish girls these days well i haven't dated but form what i think in society they should step up and pay sometimes. just imagine if u make same amount as her or she made more than u and she still expected u to pay woow what a lady hey
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Of course dating costs money, however don't be a sucker and dish out all your money on some stupid broad! $40 at the most on your first date, then after that take her to the beach and eat at like burger king or some ****. Look for ways not to spend money :D
 

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From what I can understand of it, this is AE material...

Action dates don't have to cost much $.
 

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i'm all for equality between the sexes, thats why I split everything 50/50 on dates :D
 

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are they wiullin to go with u then if its free or cheap, yea whne there are other guys out there that can provide more material and better things. lol come on. we now owmen love material thing -they all love shopping, and jewelry and ......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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burger k are u joking , how old are u, i never heard of a guy taking a gal to BK and if u do she might tell all her buds at school u did and ui will get the laughs all day long.

Originally posted by Guerrero
Of course dating costs money, however don't be a sucker and dish out all your money on some stupid broad! $40 at the most on your first date, then after that take her to the beach and eat at like burger king or some ****. Look for ways not to spend money :D
 

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Originally posted by joe45
burger k are u joking , how old are u, i never heard of a guy taking a gal to BK and if u do she might tell all her buds at school u did and ui will get the laughs all day long.
Perhaps not as a first date, but I've been to virtually every fast food place with girls I'm dating... now, if you said "Tonight I'm going to spoil you..." and brought her there, then yes - you're going to hear about it later...
 

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since i spent 100$ at one weekend with my ex-oneitis who fvcked her jerk bf the same n8 and complained to me about him about him....well since then i spent a total of 1$(b/c the girl was REALLY nice....am i not generous?) and recieved several free drinks....on my rare dates it is 50/50....i would laugh in her face if she wanted me to pay.....lol i dont even consider paying for her as an option.

you see you make your own reality. dont complain. to be man is to choose. choose to take not to give!

edit:lol i took a woman to MC'Donalds first date b/c i had only 5$left. yeh it is a bit funny and that is good- but what is ridicolous is taking the girl out to dinner and paying for everything.
 

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You guys have to think out of the box and stop strying to impress a woman buy buying sh1t. Like diablo said, action dates cost next to nothing.
 

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what is action dates??? example please

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
You guys have to think out of the box and stop strying to impress a woman buy buying sh1t. Like diablo said, action dates cost next to nothing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, I set a certain dating money limit based on my own monthly income. Right now it's $50 max per week I'll spend on dates. So if I'm going to be with a girl on Fri/Sat then 50 is max. I spend a bit here and there and then move to cheaper places" Fortunately, I'm dating someone that is a "giver." To me it's real cool to have someone pay for part of the dinner or all of it. I got bills to pay and a life to live, why the hell should I pay for everything, right?
 
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