"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Daytime date?

O

OC Speedball

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 8, 2011
Messages
199
Reaction score
10
So I met this girl on a cold approach. Called her and got talking. She said, "I'm pretty much free all week," without me asking her. Basically giving me a hint that she wanted to go out.

But anyways, she said she couldn't go out after 5 on Thursday. So I said, "Alright then, 2." She agreed right away. I'm not worried about her interest level, but now I'm thinking that I just should have chose another night for the date. Most people say that night time is best for a date, but I'm going to make the best of this situation.

My cousin (who is a natural) said I'm overthinking it and that if a girl likes you then she likes you. The time doesn't matter.

Thoughts? Tips? Anything would be appreciated. The last time I went on a date during the daytime I was 17.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top