"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Daytime cold approaches. Yes/No?

tomwesten27

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Hey guys. I have been trying to get into more day time approaches. Restaurants, malls, stores, etc.

I just left Red Lobster and a really cute girl was the hostess and I was attracted right away. I simply approached towards the end of the meal as I was leaving and said the following.

Me: "Hey, you know I normally don't do this but there is something about you..you are really beautiful."
Her: "Ohhh thank you so much!"
Me: "Whats your name I'm Tom?"
Her: "I'm Ashley!"
Me: "Nice to meet you Ashley. You know if your up for it, we should go out sometime, go do something fun."
Her: "That would be great, take down my number!"

Took her number, said it was nice meeting you, and rolled out.

I use to always be afraid of day time approaching, making a million excuses not to do it "ohh shes working" "oh she is busy" etc. but really it seems like it works better then night time...

What do you guys think? What are you experiences with day time approaching?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HedoRick

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Similar experiences here. Less BS and easier to grab the contact info quickly. They are forced to make a decision right away due to the hurried pace of day game. Say yes and have the option of seeing you again, or quickly say no and never see you again. It quickly ferrets out the time wasting chicks. I love day game...
 

PlayHer Man

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I do well with cold approaches.

When you show balls in life.. you get rewarded. Women love men with balls. Men admire men with balls.

Its the sexiest thing in the world. :yes:

If you combine having balls with being indifferent, you'll have more plates to spin than you even have time for. The vast majority of modern men are timid faggots.
 

BMX

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Absolutely. Save yourself time and money. No shields, false fronts and very few ****blocks.
 

XY.

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I do this too

Me: hi, I'm XY *extends hand"
Her: hi, XY. I'm (your next target)
Me: nice to meet u *pulls out marker and writes # on her hand*
Me: you're cute, shoot me a text and we can hang out sometime

Tried this in many different places and it Works in any situation whether it's a group or girl with her mom
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tomwesten27

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Thanks for the responses guys!

I really think the front desk girl at the gym that checks everyone in is really beautiful. Tan skin, curvy, fit, and seems like a nice girl from the short convo I have when she checks me in. She always has someone standing next to her, sometimes a few people with her when I am exiting. Was thinking about just making the approach tomorrow at the gym...

Any advice/tips before I do it??
 

Demonpenz

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I would like to hear about some blowouts and how you bounce back from them. That's what makes your inner game explode is always bouncing back.
 
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