"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Daytime cold approaches. Yes/No?

tomwesten27

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Hey guys. I have been trying to get into more day time approaches. Restaurants, malls, stores, etc.

I just left Red Lobster and a really cute girl was the hostess and I was attracted right away. I simply approached towards the end of the meal as I was leaving and said the following.

Me: "Hey, you know I normally don't do this but there is something about you..you are really beautiful."
Her: "Ohhh thank you so much!"
Me: "Whats your name I'm Tom?"
Her: "I'm Ashley!"
Me: "Nice to meet you Ashley. You know if your up for it, we should go out sometime, go do something fun."
Her: "That would be great, take down my number!"

Took her number, said it was nice meeting you, and rolled out.

I use to always be afraid of day time approaching, making a million excuses not to do it "ohh shes working" "oh she is busy" etc. but really it seems like it works better then night time...

What do you guys think? What are you experiences with day time approaching?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HedoRick

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Similar experiences here. Less BS and easier to grab the contact info quickly. They are forced to make a decision right away due to the hurried pace of day game. Say yes and have the option of seeing you again, or quickly say no and never see you again. It quickly ferrets out the time wasting chicks. I love day game...
 

PlayHer Man

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I do well with cold approaches.

When you show balls in life.. you get rewarded. Women love men with balls. Men admire men with balls.

Its the sexiest thing in the world. :yes:

If you combine having balls with being indifferent, you'll have more plates to spin than you even have time for. The vast majority of modern men are timid faggots.
 

BMX

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Absolutely. Save yourself time and money. No shields, false fronts and very few ****blocks.
 

XY.

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I do this too

Me: hi, I'm XY *extends hand"
Her: hi, XY. I'm (your next target)
Me: nice to meet u *pulls out marker and writes # on her hand*
Me: you're cute, shoot me a text and we can hang out sometime

Tried this in many different places and it Works in any situation whether it's a group or girl with her mom
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tomwesten27

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Thanks for the responses guys!

I really think the front desk girl at the gym that checks everyone in is really beautiful. Tan skin, curvy, fit, and seems like a nice girl from the short convo I have when she checks me in. She always has someone standing next to her, sometimes a few people with her when I am exiting. Was thinking about just making the approach tomorrow at the gym...

Any advice/tips before I do it??
 

Demonpenz

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I would like to hear about some blowouts and how you bounce back from them. That's what makes your inner game explode is always bouncing back.
 
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