"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Daygamed in London for first time

wonderer

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I hadn't daygamed in 2 weeks, still a newb doing this for 2 months about once a week. But always wanted to daygame here. Lots and lots of girls from all over. My hometown has a population of 150,000, I can walk round for a couple of hours and see 5 girls to approach, this was making things difficult for me to learn quickly, I need volume and practice!

I quickly learnt that London is HARD. I heard oxford street wast he best so I spent my time here, but its so difficult? It was a Monday and still so busy, I couldn't even get to girls I wanted to, if I stopped people would be crashing into me, my anxiety was high because there were so many people, 20 infront, 20 behind and 10 standing on the sides. Also the sterotype of London seemed true to me - people were so busy, never had so many people not even stop (I was yad stopping too), and some rude.

In my home town people smile and are really happy with the compliment even if they do walk off after, there arent as many people around so its easier too. The only problem is soon I will start seeing the same people which is why I wanted to practice in London. My best results were at the side streets outside of Westminster uni where I got 3 numbers (did about 30 approaches today in total), one declined twice but I got it on the 3rd attempt, all 3 are responding, they are about 6's, usually I dont go under an 8, can get 6 numbers in an hour in my home town but none respond.

All a learning experience for me, London ill be back for you, maybe just not oxford street. Tough day.

Any tips/feedback/experiences welcomed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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