My day started good but i slowly got in my head until i started just not approaching anymore and just talking to my wing as he kept approaching.
Set #1. hb8 At the park standing by herself and texting. I go direct. It was my first direct approach of the day so i was nervous but managed to keep the eye contact. She was pretty dry and giving me signs of disinterest but i stayed anyways. I was aware of staying there until she leaves but I *****ed out and left to meet my wing. I should've gone for the #close just to get the fear of rejection out of the way. I have to work on my storytelling skills, that will help me out with girls that dont like to talk.
Set #2. hb7. She was walking slowly and for some reason i hesitated. I was waiting for the best time to approach ( away from the crowd), most of the time the perfect time never comes, lucky this time it did, but i shouldnt rely on that and just approach asap. This one was an easy set. I go direct and shes cool we talk for a bit and I #close. But the interaction lasted only 5 minutes so that will probably be a flake. This was a gimme set and i didnt take full advantage. I should've gone for the instadate, and im almost sure she would've gone for it, but I was being a pus5y, the pattern of the day it seems.
Set #3. Asain hb7 With a captain america backpack taking pictures. I open indirect then transition into more direct game. Turns out she was with a group of people including her bf and he was watching me talk to his girl the whole time just waiting for her. I just decided to write down this set because it was funny.
I opened other sets that didnt amount to much. For the first time ever a girl actually ran away from me, but she seemed to be on drugs or drunk because she was dancing while waiting for the light.
Today after the day was done I was just feeling frustrated and really wanting to change. I realized this is the same way I felt in the past when i was very motivated. I was just really frustrated and in great desire of change. This is how i get powerfully motivated, by going through suffering until I start to yearn the motivation and my goal is the only thing on my mind. Once that happens, my goal becomes alot more powerful than any fear of embarrassment, and just drives me to take action right away without *****ing out.
This is how I'm feeling right now, so my goal from now on will be to go for the actions that can get me rejected. I say this because I keep bltching out of approaching girls or leaving sets when I feel like theres a high risk of rejection.So from now on going up to risky sets will be the only goal I will have. Fu<k this hesitation **** I'm not going to put up with it anymore
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Set #1. hb8 At the park standing by herself and texting. I go direct. It was my first direct approach of the day so i was nervous but managed to keep the eye contact. She was pretty dry and giving me signs of disinterest but i stayed anyways. I was aware of staying there until she leaves but I *****ed out and left to meet my wing. I should've gone for the #close just to get the fear of rejection out of the way. I have to work on my storytelling skills, that will help me out with girls that dont like to talk.
Set #2. hb7. She was walking slowly and for some reason i hesitated. I was waiting for the best time to approach ( away from the crowd), most of the time the perfect time never comes, lucky this time it did, but i shouldnt rely on that and just approach asap. This one was an easy set. I go direct and shes cool we talk for a bit and I #close. But the interaction lasted only 5 minutes so that will probably be a flake. This was a gimme set and i didnt take full advantage. I should've gone for the instadate, and im almost sure she would've gone for it, but I was being a pus5y, the pattern of the day it seems.
Set #3. Asain hb7 With a captain america backpack taking pictures. I open indirect then transition into more direct game. Turns out she was with a group of people including her bf and he was watching me talk to his girl the whole time just waiting for her. I just decided to write down this set because it was funny.
I opened other sets that didnt amount to much. For the first time ever a girl actually ran away from me, but she seemed to be on drugs or drunk because she was dancing while waiting for the light.
Today after the day was done I was just feeling frustrated and really wanting to change. I realized this is the same way I felt in the past when i was very motivated. I was just really frustrated and in great desire of change. This is how i get powerfully motivated, by going through suffering until I start to yearn the motivation and my goal is the only thing on my mind. Once that happens, my goal becomes alot more powerful than any fear of embarrassment, and just drives me to take action right away without *****ing out.
This is how I'm feeling right now, so my goal from now on will be to go for the actions that can get me rejected. I say this because I keep bltching out of approaching girls or leaving sets when I feel like theres a high risk of rejection.So from now on going up to risky sets will be the only goal I will have. Fu<k this hesitation **** I'm not going to put up with it anymore
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