"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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escaleraroyal

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no kiss in day2...she hugged me in the end of day2.


requesting day3. TXT went like this.

me:available tomorrow or sunda?y?
her:I'm free satruday afternoon.
me:cool, I will pick u up at 3pm
her:what are we gonna do? coffee?
me: we will go behind your building to pick up worms.
.......no response...

what do you guys think about this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Why your wasting your time with dating if your on Date 2 and you haven't even tryed to kiss her. Your last line would have worked if she was intrested and she would have replied to it. Go for a kiss on the first date. If she declines it then thats a win for you because you don't have to waste time with her anymore.
 

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haha no wonder she didn't reply geez. that would of been weird for her reading that. save the jokes for later after you've actually gotten physical. you should be serious with her at this point since nothings even happened. i would of just said "maybe, you will see when i pick you up. see you then."

and if you dont fuking go for a kiss this time its probably doomed. i was the same, i was afraid of going for a kiss but i always tell myself id rather do it and get rejected than not do it and wonder for years about that day of how i was too chicken. if she turns her head you just kiss the cheek. simple. i always try kiss a girl at the end of the first date and most times it actually goes well. even if not i feel good that i had the balls to do it and the girl likes boldness.
 

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Some points:

- Always meet up at night, not during the day. Throw alcohol into the mix whenever you can.

- Always do some kino and go for the kiss on the FIRST date: if you use the excuse that you didn't get the chance, you're structuring the date wrong.

- Don't overdo it with cute lines, since it will shoot you in the foot (as it did in this case).


For god sake's, what do you want this girl for?

If you want her to bang her brains out (and let's face it, you're lying if you say otherwise), you're not going to get it by continuing to be a pvssy.

Women want a guy with balls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RockaRolla25

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LoneWolf said:
haha no wonder she didn't reply geez. that would of been weird for her reading that. save the jokes for later after you've actually gotten physical. you should be serious with her at this point since nothings even happened. i would of just said "maybe, you will see when i pick you up. see you then."

and if you dont fuking go for a kiss this time its probably doomed. i was the same, i was afraid of going for a kiss but i always tell myself id rather do it and get rejected than not do it and wonder for years about that day of how i was too chicken. if she turns her head you just kiss the cheek. simple. i always try kiss a girl at the end of the first date and most times it actually goes well. even if not i feel good that i had the balls to do it and the girl likes boldness.
This brings up an interesting point. Back in my AFC days when I knew literally NOTHING about women, a girl actually showed interest in me and asked me for MY number. Since I was an AFC, I took the number but thought she only wanted to be friends. (Stupid me, right?) She invited me over her house and we watched a movie but I didn't make a move on her despite the fact we were watching it in her bed. I was thinking to myself, "I think she just wants to be friends with me because she's not trying to kiss me or anything. If I go in for the kiss and start feeling her up and all over, she might get mad and yell at me. If she really wanted me, she would be trying to touch me right now and she's not." Sure enough I got the "LJBF" speech after that.

I look back at that day now and laugh about it because with all the knowledge gained about women since, you just can't help but laugh at your old stupid dumb pathetic self.

But the interesting point I was talking about is: Would a girl make a move on Brad Pitt if he was just lying in bed with a girl and didn't make a move?

(Don't respond with "Pitt would make a move dumba.ss!")

I'm saying hypothetically, do you think a girl would make a move on Brad Pitt if he just did nothing in her bed?
 

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if you dont go for the kiss in the first date, how long are you going to wait. what happends if you dont get another date? So go for the kiss on the 3rd because you might not get another date. dont worry if she is ready or not just go for it
 

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OK we went on day3, she kissed me on both cheeks in the end...yeah! She wants picnic on day4 now...Looks like working slow works on this chick.
 

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oh christ, 4th date and no kiss? that's a deal breaker for me! i would of just grabbed her face and planted one. i want the girl to know i WANT her sexually. kiss her lips next time man! cheek kissing is lame and friendly, not sexual.
 
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