Day gaming - any success?

[Jay Bigz]

Since I stopped drinking and hitting up the bars and clubs, I've now realised that as a 33 year old it's a lot harder to meet single women....I'm not interested in online hook ups or tinder, so have contemplated dabbling with 'day gaming' - does anybody have success with this?

I'm put off by the fact that it seems to be Russian roulette, as I've had women, in coffee shops/gym etc. give what I perceived to be the 'approach me' signals, with flirtatious smiles and eye contact only for the boyfriend to emerge minutes later. I even had a chick in Starbucks ask if she could sit at my table (others were free) and just as I'm about to pluck up the courage to start a conversation, her man comes over to the table with coffees in hand, with a 'WTF' look on his face....

In my experience, all the good ones are taken (generalising, I know) so was wondering how favourable the odds really are if I'm going to start cold approaching these ladies who give off a certain vibe....?

Any other suggestions as to where to meet potential high value women, other than online or bars?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I even had a chick in Starbucks ask if she could sit at my table (others were free) and just as I'm about to pluck up the courage to start a conversation, her man comes over to the table with coffees in hand, with a 'WTF' look on his face....

My eyes skipped to the line below and I read that as "I had a chick at Starbucks ask if she could sit on my face." Lol.

Anyway I'd recommend taking up clubs in your area for interests you have. Great legit way to meet girls who are higher value to you than randomers in coffee shops.

I do partner dancing (kino is insanely easy if you want to flirt with a girl when dancing) and used to do archery. Archery for some reason was stuffed with absolute babes, I think because they all had a quirky and kind of survivalist thing to them they tended to look after themselves physically and be intelligent too.

I had a girl invite me to an MMA class once too. I asked how much physical contact there was in sparring, and she stroked my face and said "About that much."

Sadly I didn't get time to go in the end, but I think that gives you a clue to how activity groups can be a nice way to meet girls.

 

[wifehunter]

Day game, is my only game. But, I have an advantage...it's my job, at the same time.

Hmmm, a game that pays? I make money while meeting women and scoping out good places to eat.

A job as a waiter, would be a good one too.

The key is to find a job, where there are loads of women.

Yoga instructor? lolz!!!

 

[Jay Bigz]

My eyes skipped to the line below and I read that as "I had a chick at Starbucks ask if she could sit on my face." Lol.

Anyway I'd recommend taking up clubs in your area for interests you have. Great legit way to meet girls who are higher value to you than randomers in coffee shops.

I do partner dancing (kino is insanely easy if you want to flirt with a girl when dancing) and used to do archery. Archery for some reason was stuffed with absolute babes, I think because they all had a quirky and kind of survivalist thing to them they tended to look after themselves physically and be intelligent too.

I had a girl invite me to an MMA class once too. I asked how much physical contact there was in sparring, and she stroked my face and said "About that much."

Sadly I didn't get time to go in the end, but I think that gives you a clue to how activity groups can be a nice way to meet girls.

Thanks for the tips man - it seems like a club could be the way to go actually! Never thought of something as random as Archery, for a pick up spot

Day game, is my only game. But, I have an advantage...it's my job, at the same time.

Hmmm, a game that pays? I make money while meeting women and scoping out good places to eat.

A job as a waiter, would be a good one too.

The key is to find a job, where there are loads of women.

Yoga instructor? lolz!!!

Sounds like you're living the life then!! haha fair plays!!

I was considering getting a bar job on the weekends, but as my day job is pretty hardcore, I'm not sure how viable that woulc be for the long term....

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Thanks for the tips man - it seems like a club could be the way to go actually! Never thought of something as random as Archery, for a pick up spot

Don't underestimate ballroom dancing either. It's populated almost exclusively by hot middle class girls who do yoga and zumba too, so they're super fit. Often they're single, or have BFs who are too p*ssy to come and dance with them.

And if she likes you, your average Tango is basically going to be her grinding her hips on you for 15 minutes, with your faces at kiss-range

 

[flowtheory]

Women always do that. Smile and give the signals when they’re in a relationship and out from the corner appears their boyfriends. I wonder why.

 

[Tilex]

Day game is an untapped market.

Online game is oversaturated, so therefore Day game is undersaturated.

 

[wifehunter]

Day game is undersaturated.

I can't complain!

 

[Spaz]

Another clever bugger.

That's where roughly 70% of women are.

I've picked up women at random places, perhaps bumped into is more apt. Bumped into girls whilst passing a bus stop in Bangkok, pass a few my business card, later got invited for dinner/drinks.

Bumped into female joggers whilst jogging in the morning and after a few encounters got invited out.

Got "bumped" whilst in a bookstore...

The thing I noticed is that while I was busy doing my stuff during the day, women that's around takes notice and would take the initiative to bump into me, striking up a conversation etc..trying to get to know me, and if they like what they hear they will take the initiative to covertly invite you for lunch/drinks.

So my advice is, just go about ur daily day activities, keep busy and know when u r being "bumped" into by women. Carry on from there...

 

[oldmanofthesea]

I posted my experience about this recently since I've taken up day-game. I've had the same experience, minus the boyfriend appearing - instead the boyfriend is brought up very quickly in conversation. Doesn't matter how attractive the girl is - even if she's not attractive at all, I will approach her just to hone my game, and within a minute of conversation, the BF will come up. I've experimented with being flirty, or just a friendly, casual, platonic vibe. It doesn't seem to matter. So I've come to the conclusion that most women you'll bump into going about your daily life have boyfriends. Which means it is a numbers game and I guess you just have to set your expectations accordingly. Maybe 1 out of 15 or 20 or 50 girls without a ring on their finger will either not have a boyfriend, or will be seeing someone casually enough to be open to seeing you as well.

I have noticed that girls in bars at night are MUCH, much easier to talk to and less likely to have boyfriends. And I'm talking about bars, not clubs. Places like breweries with outdoor patios, etc. I know you said quit drinking so I'm not sure if you can handle being around that environment, and I know it isn't day game, but I've had a lot more luck there than in the middle of the day. I'm going to keep practicing both though because even if you get shot down 99% of the time, you are improving yourself so there is a huge benefit there.

 

[Red Legg]

I have been approaching for decades I was doing it before OLD even existed.Millenials don't know how to do it and I damn sure am not going to teach their ass.I have taken some friends along while I have done it and they all said to me that there is no way that they could do it...but then again I am an ole door to door salesman.If you have not been hit,kicked out of a business ,damn near arrested for harassment ,then you are not a real "cold caller" in my book.

 

[thePurple]

Few days ago I met nice girl, she was working in coffee shop, it was afternoon, I paid for a coffee and left piece of paper with my number at the table and she called me today. Real life example Tonight we will go to "date".

 

[wifehunter]

I have been approaching for decades I was doing it before OLD even existed.Millenials don't know how to do it and I damn sure am not going to teach their ass.I have taken some friends along while I have done it and they all said to me that there is no way that they could do it...but then again I am an ole door to door salesman.If you have not been hit,kicked out of a business ,damn near arrested for harassment ,then you are not a real "cold caller" in my book.

I find a lot of millenials socially awkward, shy, unassertive, etc. It's like they live inside their phones all day! Which means, I have to do all the work in any interaction. Exausting.

Who's going to teach these kids social skills? Obviously, not their parents.

 

[flowtheory]

Few days ago I met nice girl, she was working in coffee shop, it was afternoon, I paid for a coffee and left piece of paper with my number at the table and she called me today. Real life example Tonight we will go to "date".

I’m surprised she called. Most women wouldn’t be receptive to a guy leaving his number and in turn making her do the contact. Plus not the ideal way as you’re giving her all the power that way.
However, I am glad she called you and you’re going on a date.

 

[Spaz]

I have been approaching for decades I was doing it before OLD even existed.Millenials don't know how to do it and I damn sure am not going to teach their ass.I have taken some friends along while I have done it and they all said to me that there is no way that they could do it...but then again I am an ole door to door salesman.If you have not been hit,kicked out of a business ,damn near arrested for harassment ,then you are not a real "cold caller" in my book.

Hahahaha

 

[Spaz]

I’m surprised she called. Most women wouldn’t be receptive to a guy leaving his number and in turn making her do the contact. Plus not the ideal way as you’re giving her all the power that way.
However, I am glad she called you and you’re going on a date.

Depending on the location/time.

If it's in a club/bar and at night, they won't be receptive to it.

But during the day away from those places they r more receptive.

Make a business card and just drop it at any women you fancy, don't say a word, just leave and smile - test it, I'll bet you'll get a few calls.

 

[flowtheory]

Depending on the location/time.

If it's in a club/bar and at night, they won't be receptive to it.

But during the day away from those places they r more receptive.

Make a business card and just drop it at any women you fancy, don't say a word, just leave and smile - test it, I'll bet you'll get a few calls.

You think? I dunno. I would think women want a guy to shmooze them a little. Give em something more to think about

 

[Spaz]

You think? I dunno. I would think women want a guy to shmooze them a little. Give em something more to think about

I don't think nor hypothesised abt gaming, I just do as I please.

And as to the suggestion I gave, it's because I've done it not once, not twice but been doing it prolly about a decade now.

Works for me, don't see any reason why it won't work for you.