"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Day 3 hesitation?

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Hey guys, I went on a day 2 with this chick I met a few days ago. She brought her friend and I totally won both of them over.

She emailed me the next day saying im amazing bla bla bla and if I wanna hang out again. (her friend emailed me as well saying the same thing almost)

So I proposed hiking on this cool mountain where I live. Thing is, it's a 30 minute drive from where she lives. I said I could pick her up and drive over there and here's the reply I got:


hey...

well, i hope your are not a kind of crazy guy that steal girls lolz (my mum used to scary me with that lolz). i wanna come... it s lil bit complicated because i promised to my friends to go to an aguaparc but well... i can see tham during all the summer but you...
well it s kind of wierd but well
call me 2 day after 8 o clock, if you can so i m gonna tell if i m coming tomorow and ya..
ba bye see ya

Very understandable and everything. I just wanna reassure her I'm not gonna kidnap her or anything. Just have a good time and i'll drive her back, etc. Should I call her tonight???

As you can see I have yet to collect enough day2 experience (from cold approaches) to make these judgments for myself so I'd very much appreciate your opinions!

Thanks in advance guys.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bump... I'm still wondering what to say if I call her. 8'oclock is in 2.5 hours. You guys have any ideas?
 

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idk man you seemed a little too AFC when you offered to pick her up like that. let her find a ride there herself, you don't need to offer your services like that to her all the time. but since its too late just figure out if she is still down to hike and if not then be creative because i have no clue
 
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