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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Day 2's verse Sarging

Which do you get most joy out of?


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guywhoneedshelp

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Lately my roster has grown tremendously, and I have several girls that I could make plans with at any given point in the week. Of course, you can never have enough, and I want more!

Maybe it's the time of year, girls want to feel close to somebody around the holidays. But lately I feel fvckin' pimp. I'm walking around work today with 2 hickies on my neck from 2 different girls...I'm doing 2 girls in one day...damn it's nuts.

The question I have is how do you balance day 2's with sarging? Last night for example, I kinda wanted to go out and sarge, but the hot starbucks barista I met the day before ended up coming over right after I got done banging one of my MLTR's.

Sometimes I take the girl out with me, and it actually helps me pick up more chicks. But some of the girls I'm still developing comfort with, I find myself taking them to the movies on Saturday like I did with Christina, but I still managed to sarge after I dropped her off.

I set my standards low in the beginning, letting girls know they will not be getting into an exclusive relationship with me. Of course, they all think they have the magical vagina that is going to chance my mind. They all act like they are okay with me taking out other girls but I think deep down they are competing to be better than the other, so I will choose them. Not trying to get involved seriously, I turn 21 next month, holidays are expensive, give me a break.

So I'm trying to keep these girls where they are. I like taking them out, they are great girls, they are all available at different times which is great because I almost always have someone to keep me company on these cold nights. Last night Farrah came over, fvcked me, then we went to starbucks, built some rapport with the girl I met the night before (she always pivots for me) then the starbucks girl started texting me "oh that girls so cute, what you doin?"
me - "we're watchin a movie"
her - "you cuddlin with her?"
me - "yea"
her - "can i come over and cuddle after she leaves?"

so after the movie that I slept through Farrah left and Meghan the starbucks barista came over, i kissed closed, fingered her, etc. but meanwhile my friend Joe went sarging at a lounge and I didn't go with him.

How can I balance out these girls to the point where I don't pay too little attention to them, causing them to disapear, but don't show too much attention either by always inviting them out to the club and sh!t with me?
 

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goodfoot

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You have girls you are banging winging for you? That's pretty awesome.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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goodfoot said:
You have girls you are banging winging for you? That's pretty awesome.
A girl is entering your world of fun and excitement. If one of your hobbies is sarging, she can learn it with you. Farrah and I have read books together, watched mystery seminars together, sarged together, stuff like that. She's just cool like that. An awesome wingwoman.

Try clicking the link in my pro and reading the most recent entry.
 

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I personally like the feeling you get when you pregame and get amped before sarging, kinda like getting jacked up in the locker room before you go through the tunnel and onto the field.
 

daygameguy

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pickup phase consumes a ton of energy. I like the day-2 or comfort building phase more. Its more chilled out, fun, and enjoyable.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Snow Plowman

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I was in the same position as you until I recently cut off MANY #s...I'm down to maybe 4 chicks in rotation and a few others outside of NY so there on hold...basically what I've had set now is Thurs, fri, and sat I go out an approach, even though I'm allowed to bring chicks to hanging out with me. On Sun, Mon, Tues, and Weds I do day2s because it's those days where nothing is happening as much as it would be on thurs, fri, sat. Sometimes I'd even schedule day2s back to back to back...

But at this moment I like don't even want to do day2s, so what I end up doing is bringing chicks out on thurs, fri, or sat and just having them see what I'm all about and come along for my adventures.

It's funny because yesterday I ended up sending a text about my day...friend's deal goes wrong for business plan, got interviewed by a reporter to be in today's newspaper, almost got into a fight by some manhattan gangsta's, sneak into some private yacht/boating companies dinner party, slip into a reality show shooting...it all happened in one day.

INSTANTLY chicks were wishing they could meet up and I actually have a chick coming out today...
 
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