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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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Day 2 Questions

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cali51

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I just need help with day 2.

I'm going to ask this chick to hang, but she lives like 45 mins away and I live in the city so she would be visiting me. So the AFC in me feels like I can't just make it a simple day 2 where I can be somewhat cheap with the venue. Don't get me wrong, Im not planning on going all out on her, but I wouldn't feel right do something like put-put with her.

Can you give me some ideas on what i can do for a day 2?

I'm thinking a light dinner/lunch at above avg. restaurant downtown. But i want to shuffle her around to other places. The problem is, I don't know where. I know you have no idea about my town, but what are some general places i can take her after lunch/dinner?

One last thing. For some odd reason, I don't think this girl drinks. How do I go about asking her if she does via text without it sounding weird?


Thanks!
 

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Espi said:
Remember: she's coming to see you, even though she lives 45 minutes away. THAT right there says it all. She's interested in seeing YOU. Not in being taken to fancy places.

My advice:

Keep it simple and DO NOT worry or stress about arranging a super-fabulous date. A LOT of guys fvuck things up by trying to overly impress on that first encounter.

If a girl is truly interested in you, you can simply ask her to meet you for a cup of coffee at the local Starbucks.

But since she's taking 45 minutes' journey to see you, lunch/dinner at a moderately-priced resturant is fine, in my opinion. But DO NOT worry about taking her somewhere "above average." Keep those first few dates simple, cheap, and engaging. Lunch/dinner at a cheap place followed by putt-putt is fine. Nothing wrong whatsoever with that.
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Nope not necessarily true. I had a girl take 2 buses ( 1 hour) 3 times to come see me. You would think she was interested in me after making all that effort. Hell no. She liked my company. Never even kissed me. So just because she takes a 2 buses to see you means jack ****tt
 
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