"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Day 2 planned with HB who lives with boyfriend

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I met this HB 6.5 at the Bookstore. I am 31, she is 23. After I chatted with her for about 7 minutes and number closed her, she says

HB : you should have asked me if I have a boyfriend, because I do.
Me: oh, thats nice. I'll give you a call.


I called her and we talked for about 25 minutes. She only mentions boyfriend once in referrence to him buying her a vintage guitar for XMas. She seems very eager to chat as it was difficult to get this HB off the phone. We agree to meet at Starbucks this Tuesday.

I call her tonight (Sunday) to try and build comfort. Here is the convo

me: Hey, this is fan27, how is it going?
HB: Not to good.
Me: I am sorry to hear that. Now not a good time to talk?
HB: Yeah...I am having an issue with my boyfriend/roomate.
me: I understand, we'll talk on tuesday.
HB: ok...I'll be there a little early getting some studying done. I'll call you.
me: bye

I am not looking for an LTR with this HB. But it seems I might be able to exploit the situation to my advantage. I realize that her meeting and talking to me might be just to make her BF jealous. She might be looking for an out and I am just the encouragement she needs.

While I realize that this opportunity might entail some drama, I don't care. It has been longer than I care to remember since I last F#$cked. I would appreciate any pointers from guys who have been presented with similiar opportunities.



thanks
fan27
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HB 6.5 with boyfriend? Not worth the trouble unless she literally lands on your doorstep in a giftwrapped package with her legs spread.
 
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How is a 6.5 a Hot Babe? 6.5 is slightly above average.

HB does still stand for Hot Babe around here, right?
 
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Whatever happens, it will be additional practice. If it leads to a f%#ck, all the better. I'll post a field report.

fan27
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Had day2 with girl. It was obvious that she was just trying to make her boyfriend jealous. He was aware of our meeting. I tried the boyfriend destroyer but it kind of backfired....who cares. Only 1 hour and no money spent as she already had her Chai when I arrived.

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Dude I probly woulda done the same shyt! :(
 
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