"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Day 2 Date Report. What do you think? Did I do good?

Target_100

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This is HBStudent that I #closed and kisscosed on saturday. She seemed quite keen on going on a date today so I picked her up and took her for a walk in the park. I did much more kino than on my date with HBforeign two weeks ago.

Not any hand holding that I wanted though, but at least some kino so it goes the right way. Chatting was easy, and she laughed a lot. Hope I don't come off as goofy. My nervousness completely went away after five minutes. Good.

Then we went to a cafe and got coffe and talked for 1,5 hours maybe. She even commented on that I talk a lot, which is nice because sometimes I just ask questions and let the girl do the talking.

When driving home I said "Wanna take a quick look at my apartment? I've got to go somewhere soon, but you can take a peek". So we looked at my flat, which sadly was untidy, but clean.

My goal was to kiss her today, but I have a cold and vouldn't pass germs onto her. When I drove her home, she said that it was nice to meet me again, but didn't she didn't even initiate a hug. However I grabbed her and gave her a quick hug of course.

I hope to get a text today or tomorrow.

My next move is to try to set up an evening with a movie and red wine at my place. We live close so she can walk home if she don't wanna stay the night.

She's really cute so I'd love to make out with her or bang her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Target_100

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She just texted " It was nice seeing you again :)".


That was quite a relief for me because after my last day 2 I heard nothing.

Now what to a text her back? I'm thinking:

1. Yes, hope we meet again soon etc etc.
2. Yes, next time lets have red wine at my place.


Which one? Or something else?
 

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Germs or not...she expected you to make a move because you took her back to your apartment. She didnt hug you back likely because she is dissappointed that you didnt make the move. She wanted to be kissed and likely be made love to as well.
It doesnt look good for a next date...
 

I'm in the Mood

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Seems like she had fun on your date, and so did you.
I like that you took her back to your place, but told her she could only "take a peek." That was a very good move.

I think you should have held her hand if you wanted to. It's really easy, just put your hand out for her to take, or brush against her hand while you're walking, then hold it if she doesn't pull away. Simple.

Oh remember the part where she said "you talk a lot?"
I think that's probably a cue that you're talking a bit too much.
Making her laugh is always a good sign though, so at least you're on the right track.

A mistake that you made here is that you kissed her before, but on your date you didn't make out or even kiss her again.

This causes a girl to think that you might only want to be friends. Don't make this mistake again man.

Joe Stud said:
you're movin too slow... step it up. make the ho say no...
Lol you're 53?
Listen to this man, because you want to be getting sexual with her as soon as possible or she'll lose attraction for you.

Don't text her back for 2-3 days.

When you do, invite her over to your place to watch a movie.
Surprise her with the wine, don't tell her beforehand.

Good luck!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks a heap for the info guys.

In the car back I took her hand and tried to twine the fingers, you know, and she didn't respond to that so I removed my hand... A bit weak...

She actually commented on me speaking a lot twice. Next time I'll take the hint the first time and try to get her to tell me more about herself.

I met her in a club and the making out there was pretty aggressive from my side because I had been drinking ;)

I'm going to text her tomorrow. Don't know what yet, probably just a little note that it was nice to meet her. I'm going for the wine asap! That should get her clothes off :) Hope so!
 
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