"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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david deangelos tip of the day what do you think?

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TIP OF THE DAY


** Blow Her a Kiss **


This has worked for me every time and it is now my trademark move and
all my friends' reactions are the same -- "Boy, who would ever think
that would work."

Well this is what you do whether you are at the beach, club, bar, or
at the train station.

1) First of all make sure she makes eye contact with you, and when she
does, give a great big smile.

2) Blow her a kiss. Not like a kiss like your grandmother would blow
you. Kiss your hand and throw it out to the side real quick like you
are throwing it at her.

Every time I do this I get nothing but a big huge smile and a cute
chuckle followed by a wave.

This tip has worked wonders for me and like I said it is my trademark
move.

All the chicks like this because no other guy has ever done this
before, and it shows your romantic side.

Try it out and I bet you will be happy with the results.

Glowstix


What do people think of this tip its from david deanglos tip of the day
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I hear the italians do this alot to their women.

The question is where would u do this ?.

I mean would u throw a kiss to girl in broad daylight ?. This is unheard of in the UK.
Originally posted by Nocturnal
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Wait, this is David DeAngelo's tip of the day? I just got it in my inbox with the title "The DJ Tip of the Day (1-21-2005)", written by "Glowstix".

TIP OF THE DAY


** Blow Her a Kiss **


This has worked for me every time and it is now my trademark move and
all my friends' reactions are the same -- "Boy, who would ever think
that would work."

Well this is what you do whether you are at the beach, club, bar, or
at the train station.

1) First of all make sure she makes eye contact with you, and when she
does, give a great big smile.

2) Blow her a kiss. Not like a kiss like your grandmother would blow
you. Kiss your hand and throw it out to the side real quick like you
are throwing it at her.

Every time I do this I get nothing but a big huge smile and a cute
chuckle followed by a wave.

This tip has worked wonders for me and like I said it is my trademark
move.

All the chicks like this because no other guy has ever done this
before, and it shows your romantic side.

Try it out and I bet you will be happy with the results.

Glowstix
Confusion over who wrote this aside, I'm not sure how useful the tip really is. After all, by the author's own admission "Every time I do this I get nothing but a big huge smile and a cute chuckle followed by a wave." Perhaps it's just me, but I'm in this to get more than a smile and a wave - I'd rather get a conversation going and see where it gets me... this might be good for saying 'goodbye' or even as a sort of joke with a girl you already know, but I don't think it's as useful as has been portrayed in attracting a girl's interest initially.
 

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Diablo,

So you don't think that a non verbal method of getting a girl the other side of the room to smile and chuckle isn't useful.

To me I'd say that was a nice precursor to an approach. I suppose there are lots of other things you could do to get the same effect, but I think it's a nice one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Alpine
So you don't think that a non verbal method of getting a girl the other side of the room to smile and chuckle isn't useful.
When phrased that way, then I'd agree that this could be useful. However, I'd be curious to see the practical aspects of it - that is, if it really works as claimed. If someone wouldn't mind giving it a shot, coupled with an approach afterwards, I (and I'm sure others) would be very appreciative to see the results...
 

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I will try it when i get some money to go out at the start of feb. I think the "throwing the kiss" is a great approach rather than blowing it. It makes it more unique and more masculine.
 

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Originally posted by wildchild
I will try it when i get some money to go out at the start of feb. I think the "throwing the kiss" is a great approach rather than blowing it. It makes it more unique and more masculine.
If I'm not mistaken, Sebastion does this (exactly what is in the tip) in the movie "Cruel Intentions", along with saying "Ciao!" I would never recommend blowing a kiss, but if a choice had to be made between blowing and throwing - definitely go with throwing.
 

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Try it in the car in traffic. If you get freaky looks then you know not to go there.

I'm more foolhardy, my new phones got a video camera too!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah i agree wth throwing it at a girl,
and when masterd properly you can throw a fart about 7 feet across the room at her...
 

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yeah better kept for saying goodbyes and when u wanna go hoon ladies on the street whilst driving haha


yeah but it's definantly a european thing.... i know a lot of ppl in portugal that do the exact same thing
 
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