"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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David D says to call 3 or 4 times

Dr Box

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Calling 3 or 4 times is not really that bad, as long as you have the right frame of mind for calling her,
you are not calling her because you deperatly need to see her....if you dont see her your world will crumble and your life will end.........
You are calling her because you are a cool and confident guy, you are heaps of fun to be around and you are giving her a chance to see that for her self, if she doesnt take you up on that offer it is her loss.
Two very different states of mind, there is nothing wrong with pride, to be proud of yourself for all you have done in life is very good. Just be careful of excessive pride.
I am a big fan of David D's stuff but as with every bit of advice in this game some of it will work for you some of it wont try a couple of techniques on different girls and see which one works
Good Luck
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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3-4 times is perfect!

Sometimes women hate returning calls and if they are busy when you call they will wait for you to call the next time instead of calling you back. If you don't call back at all they think, 'I guess he wasn't really interested after all.'
 

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3-4 times over the course of 1-3 months thats ok.
 

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Three calls max, then I give up. Some girls enjoy being chased, and maybe if I called 22 times I'd eventually score, but on the whole I don't want to look or act desperate and if they are interested they've already failed my test by not being polite enough to return my call.

If I really liked a girl and she wouldn't return my call after three attempts I'd leave it for a month or so and hope/arrange to run into them somewhere.
 
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