"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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David D Natural Pickup Line

Pugsley_f5

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Hey guys, I was just reading a David D article and he used a very natural sounding pickup in it that sounded awesome, and I wanted to know if you all have ever used it b4

heres the wording

"Hi, I noticed you when you came in and I had to take a second to see what you were like..."

what reactions did you all get with it, and the number of snuff offs you got using it. I think I might start using it , I just wanted to get you all's EXP on it , those who have used it b4.....

And No Philosophical stuff, I just need to get comfortable talking to women and over my fear, not pick them up.


Pugs
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is an example of direct style, though somewhat watered down.

You're pretty much stating up front that you are interested in her as opposed to indirect which opens them up with just about anything in order to build value before going physical/sexual.

BadBoy & Shark are topnotch PUAs who teach direct style in Europe and has great success with this (BadBoy picked up Miss Croatia though at the time it was a mix of direct and indirect).

OCWaterBoy, my wing and buddy, is pretty much all direct now (transitioned from Mystery Method) and loves it, with decent success (some lays, dates, etc). I've experimented with it and haven't experienced the same supercharge effect that he has.

The boldness of direct and the confidence that it conveys gives you a couple of points above the average guy, but it's also more dependent upon your looks than indirect. It forces her to make a value judgement of you on the spot while using indirect you can build your value up before getting sexual.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've never used that particular pickup but I consider myself a David D desciple. I've seen many PUA's techniques and his are the easiest and most effective I've seen.
 

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pugsley.
I think it's better to just go out there and try it--see if it suits you. That line is a good example of a principle DD seems to advocate (which is a good one) -- when you see a woman you want to talk to, just walk up to her and say the first thing about her you might notice...no matter how bizarre or random it might be.

[and no, i don't mean say "wow, baby you have great knockers"]

Once I was in a coffee shop studying and a girl came up and said something like "I can see you're extroverted, because you draw and spin your pencil when you're thinking"
It was probably BS, but it was so original that I couldn't help wanting to know what she was about...
 

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Once I was in a coffee shop studying and a girl came up and said something like "I can see you're extroverted, because you draw and spin your pencil when you're thinking"
It was probably BS, but it was so original that I couldn't help wanting to know what she was about...
That has nothing to do with being an extrovert lol. Broads can be so ditzy sometimes...but hey, at least you hooked up.
 

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I'm Croatian, **** what's the miss's name?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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been awhile since i posted last ;P turned 21 heheh
Anyway it boils down to one thing just talk to the damn person why used canned lines... I would go direct just like david d but why not let it flow with the conversation like hey I was just thinking lets go have coffee sometime i'd like to get to know u better.. for example its got the main points in it... I want to see you... and it seems casual... getting to know them better... seems like a huge portion of americans have serious problems communicating with each other it horrid... just say what you mean its not hard. the hard part is meaning what you say. or something lol peace.
 
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