"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dave Chappelle - "Men and Women Don't Get Along No More"

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Dave Chappelle makes some very astute observation in this stand-up commentary about male-female relations in today's society.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ZRflz-93JA

He's bang-on with everything he says. There's a definite sense that male-feme relations are at an all time low - perhaps lower than at any point in American history. But is this really the case? Or is the internet and forums like sosuave merely a meeting ground for malcontent men everywhere? So whereas in the past these men would have no outlet to voice their frustrations, today the internet has given these men a voice.

Is there a genuine disconnect between men and women in today's society? If so, what accounts for it? Those of us who are Gen Y have no prior exposure to women from generations past. How did they behave back then, and how were male-female relations in those days? Have men changed from generations past? Have women changed?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nobody knows for sure dude, and you shouldn't care unless you're doing research for a PhD thesis or a sociology textbook. Deal with the society that's in front of you. As long as eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap, men and women will be having more or less the same relationships with each other.
 

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The problem is that too many "modern" feminized liberal men (using the term sparingly) allow these cvnts to push them around and tell them what to do.

And what's the end result? Are women any happier for all the things they have been given?

The ancients knew many things that we, in our ignorant contempt for them, have forgotten. We think ourselves so much more "advanced and intelligent" than our predecessors, but in truth we have allowed the animals to run the zoo.

So every man, in his trials and tribulations, must take it upon himself to be a stalwart fortress of masculinity, though besieged on all sides by the inequities of women and weak, effeminate men.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
So every man, in his trials and tribulations, must take it upon himself to be a stalwart fortress of masculinity, though besieged on all sides by the inequities of women and weak, effeminate men.
Excellent point. But being a "stalwart of masculinity"... doesn't get you laid, not in today's society of empowered women. The Don Draper days are dead.

Men will follow the path of least resistant to pvssy.

If acting like a queer or a douchebag gets you laid, then there will be more queers and douchebags.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Genesis 2:18

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Women were created to be a helper to the man, and I think this is the issue we have today. The media is trying influence entire populations world wide that its normal for women to be independent and to be the leader.

You can see it in commercials, TV shows, magazines, where the women is the stronger person and the man is the weaker one. I just find it interesting how people think that what the see on TV is reality and their own lives are fake and they need to change.

It's sad to see how entire generation's are being controlled by however spends the most money on advertisements, TV programs and Movies.

Only if we all were able to heed Howard Beale's warning some 34 years ago to turn the Television set "OFF".
 

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lol you guys sound like crazed, mormon cult members. I can see why you'd have issues with many women and this guy is a *comedian*

I don't have issues with women and consider myself to be living in the golden age of male-female relationships. Never before have women been so open sexually, so willing to contribute financially to relationships, and so easy to meet. We are truly living in amazing times. You can meet women at University, online websites, nearly all night clubs, etc. You can take women to swingers clubs, strip bars, sex stores, and so on. Or you can choose a more traditional woman and still have your sundays at church or whatever you desire. We have the same choices as they had in the old days plus more and even easier ways of reaching out to find those people with similar interests. Transportation with better highways, planes, and so on has also improved.

It's not the times that are the problem, it's the negative attitudes some men have that are holding them back. It's not all doom and gloom. Seriously, if I were feeling like all modern relationships were doomed, I would seek professional assistance for a mental health condition rather than try to continue thinking about this subject.
 

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Apparently you don't know the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. In the Bible they were two cities that became so wicked in their ways that they were judged upon and destroyed.

Now your saying because women are more sexually liberated that we live in a golden age of relationships? What your saying is that instead of a women staying home and taking care of children, they should be out partying with friends and have multiple relationships outside the home.

You sir are calling for the destruction of the traditional nuclear family. Now this is why the media spends billions of dollars, with a population broken and corrupt it means a population that is easier to control.

With a population under control they can plunge the world into immorality in which will eventually call for the final Judgment of God. You can read what happens in the Book of Revelations in the Bible.
 

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Im not sure that me getting more than my fair share of puvssy will cause the collapse of society, but if you want to believe so be my guest lol
 

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What?

EA Gold said:
Apparently you don't know the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. In the Bible they were two cities that became so wicked in their ways that they were judged upon and destroyed.

Now your saying because women are more sexually liberated that we live in a golden age of relationships? What your saying is that instead of a women staying home and taking care of children, they should be out partying with friends and have multiple relationships outside the home.

You sir are calling for the destruction of the traditional nuclear family. Now this is why the media spends billions of dollars, with a population broken and corrupt it means a population that is easier to control.

With a population under control they can plunge the world into immorality in which will eventually call for the final Judgment of God. You can read what happens in the Book of Revelations in the Bible.
You're on the wrong website if this is the message you want to send.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think EA Gold is trolling you. I HOPE so at least!

I don't have issues with women and consider myself to be living in the golden age of male-female relationships. Never before have women been so open sexually, so willing to contribute financially to relationships, and so easy to meet. We are truly living in amazing times.
Totally agree, couldn't have said it better myself. It's too bad that 80% of the dudes here are inept with women and therefore bitter toward them.
 
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