Daughters and the Game

[AlexKaiser]

So, I dont have kids, but a lot of guys do. Guys like you who are in the game, know the negging strategies and the mind games, and use them, might have attractive daughters that take after their moms, and lure a hefty number of guys towards them.

How do you feel when she starts dating guys? Do you ever worry what might happen to her if she hooks up with a slick DJ?

I've never had a sister in my life, and no Dad to teach me the ropes, so this thought never occurred to me until now. I always wondered if this is why girl's dads are so protective over their daughters.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I am not quite there yet with my daughters, but I know one day they'll want to date some boys and sex will be on the mind. Admittedly they have watched Disney princess cartoons too, but I do limit how much tv they can watch at any time. The oldest mostly likes to go outside and play or if she's inside, she'll watch some Youtube videos on crazy stuff like these spinners or new ways to make slime.

I do think that at her age currently she has a curiosity about boys but isn't acting on anything. One of her friends has a boyfriend of sorts, but they're still young at an age where being gf/bf means sitting together at lunch and smiling and maybe if the boy is brave enough trying to hold her hand. She'll talk to her mom more about that stuff than to me, but I've sat down with her before and am trying to put good thoughts in her mind. I told her that one day she may want to see a boy, and that's fine. The one thing I emphasized during that conversation was that it is important that she be respectful of the other person. She may get to know a lot of people who will not be respectful and may in fact be downright rude, it's to be expected. Don't let that change who you are and to always be respectful of someone until they give you a reason not to be. If it gets that bad then it's time to stop seeing that person.

There's all sorts of stuff I could go into with her, but I think that's probably as good a place to start as any. Now if she chooses to put that advice into practice, well it'll be awhile yet, and putting advice into action is another story entirely.