"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Daughter & I fancy USA holiday in 2023

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Afternoon men, thinking of 2 weeks in America Instead of a UK summer holiday.

Daughter is 14 into cars or historic events, shes also majorly into music

was thinking route six six

or she likes the idea of the motown museum (Detroit Area ) obviously this would only take up a day of our holiday

any advice or thoughts

what would you all suggest?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Afternoon men, thinking of 2 weeks in America Instead of a UK summer holiday.

Daughter is 14 into cars or historic events, shes also majorly into music

was thinking route six six

or she likes the idea of the motown museum (Detroit Area ) obviously this would only take up a day of our holiday

any advice or thoughts

what would you all suggest?
New York is nice if you have the cash.

You enjoy beaches? Check out Florida.

You like live music? Check out Austin, Texas.

You wanna see some cool monuments? Check out Chicago.
 

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Depends what kind of music. Each area has it’s own specialty. Jazz/Cajun in NOLA. Country in Nashville, Memphis & Branson MO. Still some grunge reminance in Seattle. Austin, Miami, LA & NYC. As for ‘historical’. Again. Depends on what she is interested in. Native American. European exploration, Colonial. Civil War….
 

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Afternoon men, thinking of 2 weeks in America Instead of a UK summer holiday.

Daughter is 14 into cars or historic events, shes also majorly into music

was thinking route six six

or she likes the idea of the motown museum (Detroit Area ) obviously this would only take up a day of our holiday

any advice or thoughts

what would you all suggest?
All I am going to say is don't take her to Detroit. Can't imagine a worse place to vacation to even for a day. If you want to hit up Motown do it on the way somewhere else. There are some gorgeous places in Michigan -- especially on the west coast. Ludington, Sleeping Bear Dunes, Traverse City, etc., are all great destinations in the summer especially if you are a beer fan/boating fan/fishing fan.
 

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If your interested in seeing "hometown" American life outside of the big cities, Route 66 would be great. I live really close to it in Illinois, South of Chicago.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Remember. The main reason many International tourists visit the USA are the Parks. They really are a must.
 

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Depending on what type of cars she is into, you might consider this:

There is a highway that runs along the western coast line of the US in California. Its called pacific coast highway(highway 1) where they have a big car show at Monterey. Beautiful area.

You also might check out the Peterson Automotive Museum in Los Angeles. Its probably one of the largest and world renowned.

For music, Austin Tx or Nashville Tn is where its at. Lots of bars and live music. Nashville has more music history and more country music. New Orleans, La also has a lot of jazz/blues music and a ton of bars. They also have some great music festivals. Lots of old cotton/slave plantations outside of New Orleans.

Boston, Gettysburg, and Washington DC(Smithsonian Museum) are great for American history.

If you like nature, Yellowstone National Park is the best.

There is so much to see in the US. WE have it all.
 
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Ill make a drink and have a scan over your advice fellas, thanks
 
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