"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kelv

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How do you get a women to go on a date?

Do you go straight out and ask her? Or do you use lures, excuses to hang out with you alone? i feel some ladies will appreciate the first method more...straight with no hidden motives
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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Do it on a case by case basis. You want to customize your methods for each women. Everything is a variable.

Your completely right, some women like you to be straight, no games. Others like to chase, and others still like to be chased. Its your job to find out what plan of attack will give you the best chance for success.

In the end though, inner game and self improvement is what gets women. Being a well rounded guy that women would be proud to be with is what they want.
 

Ease

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Theres girls you date, and girls you lure.
 
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