Dating your ex's sister: Is it ever a good idea?

[Jaxon]

I'm debating asking out the younger sister of my ex, I'm just trying to figure out how much of a sh*tstorm it's gonna cause (if any) and whether or not it's worth the trouble.

This ex is probably the most serious girlfriend I've ever had, we were on and off for about 3 years but broke up like 5 years ago. Her sister recently contacted me on Facebook and is dropping serious IOIs, yes I realize it's Facebook but still.

Her sister was too young when we were together but she's grown up and is really hot, hotter than my ex. Me and my ex are on fairly good terms, though we don't really talk or hang out anymore. Her family used to love me, but now to be honest I'm not sure how they feel about me. My stock definitely isn't as high with her parents as it used to be, but I don't think it's all that bad.

Technically I ended the relationship, but only because it was blatantly obvious she had lost interest in me. (This was in my super super super AFC days, it's embarrassing to think how weak I was with girls back then).

Anyway I'm trying to decide how worth it it'd be to ask her sister out now, or if I'm setting myself up for some unnecessary drama. I'm pretty sure my ex is single at the moment, not sure how that'd play into it though.

I'm looking for someone who's been in a similar situation to share their experience, or just some general things to consider about the whole thing.

 

[Da Realist]

You'll have drama. The way I think it go down is that the older sister is going to be jealous despite how you much of a wuss you were because her sis is getting the attention she used to get; it gets even worse if you act like a man now. The younger sis will eat it up since she has something over her older sis which will make things better for you in the short run. When things cool down later, the younger sister's interest is going to drop since your ex may have gotten used to it and that when you have to be able to keep her interest up. I say it's a great challenge if you want to see how good you are and you want to create a little choas, but depending on how much drama you can stand you may want to leave it alone. I say the things you want to look at though are if your ex is totally over you and how much of a bond she has with her sister.

 

[DJDamage]

Go for it.

Most of the drama will be centered around the two sister's who will forever hate each other hahah.

Don't meet your ex or her family anymore and don't get into an LTR with this one 'cause of the reason above. Tell her sister if she wants to see you to keep this a secret.

Fvck her sister for a few months and move on.

 

[chuchu]

DJDamage nails it in the head. haha

My wingman fvck the two sisters and moved on, and they don't know about it. As long as its a secret, theres a good chance you will not have drama.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Been there done that with my ex. I was fvcking her sister before me and my ex started dating. Except she didn't even know about it. (until later) So, her sister moved away and I went in for the kill. I was going for their momma next (cause she was a slut) but, that never happend.

Just be prepared for all the drama.

 

[Jaxon]

You'll have drama. The way I think it go down is that the older sister is going to be jealous despite how you much of a wuss you were because her sis is getting the attention she used to get; it gets even worse if you act like a man now. The younger sis will eat it up since she has something over her older sis which will make things better for you in the short run. When things cool down later, the younger sister's interest is going to drop since your ex may have gotten used to it and that when you have to be able to keep her interest up. I say it's a great challenge if you want to see how good you are and you want to create a little choas, but depending on how much drama you can stand you may want to leave it alone. I say the things you want to look at though are if your ex is totally over you and how much of a bond she has with her sister.

This sounds pretty accurate. One thing I'm wondering about is how much sh*t her sister would talk about me, partially because I was so afc with her and partially because I know she would be a least a little jealous, though I'm sure never admit it.

 

[KontrollerX]

Fvck the sister and have whatever kind of relationship you want to have with her for however long you want to have it but make sure to drop her ass at the first major sign of disrespect or disinterest and you come out of this situation a winner.

It might even make the older one want you again and fvck you a few times just to mark her territory and prove she's still got it lmfao.

 

[saber]

ive seen it done...initail **** storm that subsided...the two are still together

 

[Wodan]

I'm debating asking out the younger sister of my ex, I'm just trying to figure out how much of a sh*tstorm it's gonna cause (if any) and whether or not it's worth the trouble.

This ex is probably the most serious girlfriend I've ever had, we were on and off for about 3 years but broke up like 5 years ago. Her sister recently contacted me on Facebook and is dropping serious IOIs, yes I realize it's Facebook but still.

Her sister was too young when we were together but she's grown up and is really hot, hotter than my ex. Me and my ex are on fairly good terms, though we don't really talk or hang out anymore. Her family used to love me, but now to be honest I'm not sure how they feel about me. My stock definitely isn't as high with her parents as it used to be, but I don't think it's all that bad.

Technically I ended the relationship, but only because it was blatantly obvious she had lost interest in me. (This was in my super super super AFC days, it's embarrassing to think how weak I was with girls back then).

Anyway I'm trying to decide how worth it it'd be to ask her sister out now, or if I'm setting myself up for some unnecessary drama. I'm pretty sure my ex is single at the moment, not sure how that'd play into it though.

I'm looking for someone who's been in a similar situation to share their experience, or just some general things to consider about the whole thing.

Look forward to seeing you on a Jerry springer like show in the future!

 

[MacAvoy]

I've nailed two different sets of 3 sisters. It was worth the drama. Why because I got very little of it, as DJDamage said, the drama will be between them.

Besides, theres no better way to break up with a girl than telling her that her sister was a better fvck. Doing that while your banging her creates even more fireworks.

In the end, its going to come down to your personality. Everyone loves me so I was able to do it successfully in different familes. I'm a dirty dog but I'm a very lovable dirty dog.

I think your putting the cart before the horse, I bet dollars to donuts you won't pull it off and you'll just be wanking, thinking about the sister.

 

[slickaz]

aight been outa the country on business for the past week so havent been on lately..but this one is interesting to me because ive been there.

- same situation as you, with a lil twist..
- was with one chic.
- her sister used to come txt me lots about her bfs asking for advice..i never really did too much of that..
- she used to visit me at the varsity library when i was researching etc.
- she instigated sense of insecurity in her older sister (my girl at the time)
- my girl approached me asking if i had cheated on her
- i got mad yadda yadda.
- things for ugly and we broke up in about a week
- soon after her sister visits my house on the pretext of crying about some bf trouble.
- i let her in..and sittin on the couch with her on my lap..and she kissed me.

younger sister was a freak, had massive knockrz and a round soft rump..
anyway the elder sister found out, they had a massive fight..and i believe till today they dont really see eye to eye..
but..i dont have a scratch on me..so id say..go for it..

the elder sisters loss man..if the younger sister was not related to her, you'd go for it..right?...so why should that stop you..

 

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